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Ok, maybe just one.
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Will herf for food
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Generally speaking, as a relative newbie still, I find CA a great place to come and find the knowledge I want about cigars. Some of the folks around here really know the ins and outs of th is hobby and have a vast amount of knowledge to pass on. I don't post nearly as much as I could, but I read a ton of posts here cause I can always find the answer to the questions I have. Thanks knowledgable ones.
Also, is there a "generally speaking" for a guy who is hosting his first herf, which is also simply his first herf?
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Have things to eat and drink. Seating for those that attend. Ashtrays are a nice touch. Try and relax, the only reason to be nervous is the unknown. It'll pass about 3 minutes after someone shows up. The guests make the party.
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Generally speaking I’d recommend that you stay away from buying boxes until you are six months into the hobby. Every brother of the leaf here prolly has a box or two that he over bought because he thought it was great early on.
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Feeling at Home
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Now this is terrific advice.
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Generally speaking stop saving your best cigars for “special occasions.” A friend of mine had a box of Cubans from the late 80s and he’d been saving them for a while. When he found out I’d actually started smoking he told me we’d have one on a special occasion. I asked him did he smoke one when he married his amazingly beautiful wife who was an actual Playmate and who actually loves him? He said no. I asked if he smoked one when HP bought his company for a ransom? He said no. I asked if he smoked one when his twins were born? He said no.
I thought I knew the perfect time and told him “After we eat this fine meal and drink more scotch while crossing the street you will be crushed by an out of control city bus. Your wife will be devastated and mourn you for two years tops. But the girls will need a father and a playmate needs a man and she will eventually find one. They’ll date for a while and marry a year later, cause who lets a wealthy playmate get away? And while they are on their honeymoon on your yacht right before he consummates he’s gonna go up to the deck and smoke one of those Cohibas.” Needless to say we cracked the box at a bbq the next day. Anyway sometimes you have to let “because its Tuesday” be a special enough occasion. |
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Golf clap. I learned that here. One of the best pieces of knowledge I have taken away from the wonderful people here. |
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Wisdom and humor in the same post is a rare find.
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Since we are speaking in generalities: (And not avoiding duplication)
Aged are better than fresh If you gotta smoke alone- doing so at the beach watching and hearing the waves is wonderful You meet the nicest peeps at herfs CC and NonCC have both good and bad CS and now CA is the best cigar forum A $25 cigar isn't always better than a $2 cigar! Don't expect to stop at a 20 cigar desk top! Being generous comes back atcha many fold Don't take things on any forum too seriously Don't take life too seriously- you won't get out of it alive!
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Even if the don't smoke, bring your "significant others" to herfs as they will then see why we frequent same.
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Almost everyone here is a true brother/sister of the leaf. Almost is not 100%. In buying or selling heartache can occur for "he who ships first" based upon finding out you are dealing with an exception to your insulated view of our circle of trust here.
Generally speaking, sellers who have built experience and trust here should require any buyer to send payment first. Buyers should look beyond the numbers to ensure that there is a diverse experience vs all with one or 2 folks when choosing to accept this liability. Generally speaking, if you are a new seller here it is not unreasonable for buyers who have built credibility here to ask for you to ship first. Accepting this risk is part of the process of becoming trustworthy to many here and the same words of caution apply to your decisions. Cigar Asylum is not the guarantor of transactions here other than failure to satisfy obligations is grounds for being removed from the forum. Use common sense, ask questions and don't let zeal overcome a natural level of caution that should be exercised in any financial transaction.
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Generally speaking there are no non-cubans that taste like Cubans.
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Generally speaking CCs are not better than NCs, just different. There are good NCs and good CCs. The golden rule is smoke what you like and like what you smoke.
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Generally speaking there is no bad way to pick new cigars to try. You can pick based on magazine ratings, bands, recommendations of friends, etc. Hell you can pick based rolling chicken bones in a circle of goats blood if that’s your deal. Just try enough to figure out what you like and don’t like in general. Then try some more because your tastes are bound to change.
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Generally speaking nose smoking will blow your smoking mind. There will be cigars you couldn't appreciate before that open up whole new worlds after. There will also be cigars you loved previously that are not so dear to you.
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