What Terrifies the Ever-Loving BAJEEZUS out of you?

[Chingas]

You'll be fine Brother. Thats a cakewalk once your their.

Biggest Fear. Prison. I here they don't play nice!

[ninjavanish]

Originally Posted by Chingas

You'll be fine Brother. Thats a cakewalk once your their.

Biggest Fear. Prison. I here they don't play nice!

I have no doubt that I will be fine. It doesn't really ease my mind at all though. Which is what makes the whole thing stupid to me. In my mind I KNOW it'll be fine... it's not even the thoughts of the unknowns/what ifs that give me problems because I can rationalize those away. It's just the actual thing... and I'm sure, as with all phobia's, it's just a psychological block that can only be erased by dealing with it...

Kind of like the people who are afraid of snakes holding snakes and losing their fear of them...

Ok maybe that is a bad example but the point is... I feel like it is one of those things that only goes away once a person has experienced it first hand...

I'm also afraid of Babies. Terrified I will break them. And actually not just babies but the whole process of childbirth FREAKS THE F'N HELL out of me. And I don't even have to do the hard parts.

[SvilleKid]

Originally Posted by ninjavanish

I'm also afraid of Babies. Terrified I will break them. And actually not just babies but the whole process of childbirth FREAKS THE F'N HELL out of me. And I don't even have to do the hard parts.

WTH!!! What's this talk of BABIES!!! You just got married!! I'm telling you mom! That'll fix you, scaring me like that!!!

[smelvis]

Originally Posted by ninjavanish

I have no doubt that I will be fine. It doesn't really ease my mind at all though. Which is what makes the whole thing stupid to me.

It is not stupid and is a real fear I have the same one my last operation I had to have a spinal, That and my lungs made it not safe to go under!

I also have to take Valium to enter a hospital and to my monthly doctors appointment, I also have panic attack try feeling like your having a heart attact but knowing it is in your mind, it still feels like it. the mind is funny.

I am now having chronic back, neck and hip pain an go thru 180 10mg hydrophones a month.

I understand and relate brother you are not alone!!! You ever want to chat just pm for my phone number, I also fear not being able to work which is very close to becoming real.

Good Luck!!