Originally Posted by smokin5

The best advice I can give to you is make an appointment with a GOOD EXPERIENCED Family Law attorney in your area. Every state has very different laws when it comes to divorce & property & custody issues. Don't be afraid to ask people you know if they can recommend someone.
And remember, there are 2 types of lawyers: those who look to resolve conflicts & those who look to create them. Avoid the latter; if you get for a junkyard dog, you will quickly learn that they're very expensive to feed.

Good luck. Keep your perspectives clear & your emotions in check.