3 year olds and cigars..... - Page 3

neoflex · 06-03-2011, 09:43 AM

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Originally Posted by nofeardiver

man not looking foreward to this my one year old allready crawls over and lifts him self up and bang on the glass of my vino... i am going to have to figure out a way to lock it...

There's a thread somewhere on here where someone came up with a halfway decent looking system.
Do you have a room where the door can be closed? May be a good alternative on where to keep it. I know when my daughter gets to that stage I may need to reassess my storage devices and go with a Vino or maybe a cooled Cabinet so I can keep them in my office upstairs where she can't just wonder in and have at it.

nofeardiver · 06-03-2011, 09:45 AM

will have to look its and edgestar, i know the vino i bought from Larry(Ogre) has a key hole, he is looking for the key for me, so i can lock that one, the other one i might have to put one of those child proof plastic locks on it temporary....

06-03-2011, 09:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Remo_5_0

Dude, I have 3 girls, and they are gorgeous, I am seriously gonna either have a heart attack or be in prison when the boys start coming around!!!

I totally feel ya!!!!!

My daughter will be three in September. I don't smoke around her, but she knows mama smokes cigars. We really have not had any ?'s, just that is mama's cigars. Now the lighter is a totally different story!!!! I have to keep it HIDDEN! I generally smoke when I don't have her, because cigar smoke is so pungent and she likes snuggling!

I hope this helps!

I have to have talks with her about my SCOTCH being for adults way more often that the cigar situation. You would think that it taste bad to her, but she likes it. Definately my child

awsmith4 · 06-03-2011, 10:05 AM

I have a 4yr old boy and a 2yr old girl. I smoke cigars, I drink and I brew beer. They ask questions and I answer honestly. When the 4yr old has asked to try the cigar I said "When you are 18 you can". When he asked me why I told him because his body has to be big like mine (at which he points and laughs at my belly) and that just like driving, the law saw you have to be a certain age or the police will come and get you. Would this conversation work with an older kid, probably not but I am just learning as I go. My parents drank and smoked cigars in front of me and I always understood that I couldn't until I was older.

By the way Remo, I haven't forgotten about you

Remo · 06-03-2011, 10:07 AM

Good suggestions guys, thanks.

Albert, I know

357 · 06-03-2011, 10:08 AM

I too get this question from my 4 & 5 yr olds. They have gotten the smoking is bad for you stuff; my 5 yr old from school. Anyway, my wife smokes cigarettes, and they know they are bad for her.

She's trying to quit now, but a but it is hard for the kids to understand the difference between cigarettes and cigars. They understand that some drinks are "grown up" drinks and that some grown ups smoke. That much get. Good luck.

BTW, it's hard to think about some guy coming over to date my daughter (4) someday. That said I have a healthy firearm collection and I'm about 6'6" & 295. I promise you I will find a number of ways to put the fear of God into some poor kid's soul.

Ranger_B · 06-03-2011, 10:08 AM

My wife has a 4 and 8 year old both girls. Whenever a box is on the steps the first thing they ask is if it is more cigars. Whoops guess I need to cut back. Anyway everytime it is cigars they are the first to open the boxes so they can smell them. I dont smoke near them unless we are hiking. When they ask about them I tell them I smoke cigars to relax.

pektel · 06-03-2011, 10:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Drez

Man I hope I have a boy first lol.

I have 2 boys (3 years and 1 year old). Tell you what, I was hoping for boys too, but my main concern was 10 fingers and 10 toes. Just a healthy baby was enough for me.

OP, my 3 year old knows what cigars are, and knows not to go near them. I told him once he's big like me, he can if he wants to. But cigars are only for grownups.

If they ever ask to try your beer though, let them. It only takes one little sip for them to never ask again!

treatneggy · 06-03-2011, 12:01 PM

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Originally Posted by nofeardiver

man not looking foreward to this my one year old allready crawls over and lifts him self up and bang on the glass of my vino... i am going to have to figure out a way to lock it...

I feel your pain. My 2 year old loves to play in any humidor he can reach, and ripped the hinges out of a desktop humidor while trying to open it - I think he had a hold of the lid and the humidor slipped off the desk.

He also likes to carry around any cigars he can find, especially when I'm trying to re-arrange the cooler!

mmblz · 06-03-2011, 12:25 PM

my 3 year old daughter told me my cigar was stinky the other day

CigarNut · 06-03-2011, 01:50 PM

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Originally Posted by mmblz

my 3 year old daughter told me my cigar was stinky the other day

You imply a great point here...

Don't hide your cigar smoking. Kids are not stupid and they will get the wrong idea. Explain to them what it is, why you do it, and why they cannot do it now (it's an adult privilege)...

FWIW mmblz, my 20 year old son agrees with your daughter...

Blueface · 06-03-2011, 02:29 PM

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Originally Posted by CigarNut

You imply a great point here...

Don't hide your cigar smoking. Kids are not stupid and they will get the wrong idea. Explain to them what it is, why you do it, and why they cannot do it now (it's an adult privilege)...

FWIW mmblz, my 20 year old son agrees with your daughter...

Or......................

I assure you, my grandson will not touch a cigar for a very, very long time.
Right after that photo, the sting kicked in on the lips and tongue and on the floor it went.

Sometimes seeing it and touching it goes a long way with kids.
A kid's expert I saw once when I was a parent for the first time said something that stuck with my wife and I for years.
She said let them touch it, feel it, and they will move on.
For years, we had very expensive Capodimonte that survived through two kids by applying this principle.
Once the curiosity is satified, they move on.

shark · 06-03-2011, 10:28 PM

The way that I see it, you have nothing to explain to her. Adults do things that may seem strange to a child but that's the way that the world works.

shark · 06-03-2011, 10:30 PM

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Originally Posted by pektel

I have 2 boys (3 years and 1 year old). Tell you what, I was hoping for boys too, but my main concern was 10 fingers and 10 toes. Just a healthy baby was enough for me.

OP, my 3 year old knows what cigars are, and knows not to go near them. I told him once he's big like me, he can if he wants to. But cigars are only for grownups.

If they ever ask to try your beer though, let them. It only takes one little sip for them to never ask again!

Especially if it's a really hoppy IPA!!

shark · 06-03-2011, 10:39 PM

My Dad and a couple of his brothers used to spark up cigars whenever they got together when I was a kid. I didn't like the smell of them at the time (and I KNOW my Mom DIDN'T like cigars!!!), so I never bothered to question that. However, my Dad used to like smoking a pipe quite frequently, now that smell I liked! However, I never thought to get into Dad's tobacco, because I already knew that the consequences would be dire!

SO here I sit, with cigar in hand...funny how that works, isn't it? I miss you Dad!

I think my Dad and Uncles would approve of my choices in cigars, though.

forgop · 06-03-2011, 10:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Drez

That's why I want boys lol. Call me when you need back up. Lol.

This is the reason I'll be on the front porch cleaning a shotgun the first time a boy comes over to the house.

I'll also take him out for a walk around the block explaining my expectations and should I find out that any of them are broken, I have ready-mix concrete in the garage ready to go and nobody would ever find his body in the pond.

mmblz · 06-04-2011, 07:02 AM

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Originally Posted by pektel

If they ever ask to try your beer though, let them. It only takes one little sip for them to never ask again!

Actually as far as beer, my 1 and 3 year olds both love it

longknocker · 06-04-2011, 08:28 AM

I Have A 3 Year Old Grandson That Follows Me Everywhere & Wants To Do Every Thing I Do. I Explain To Him When He "Grows Up", He Can Decide If He Wants To Smoke Cigars, But Now He Is Too Young. He Understands!

My Wife & Daughter Hate It, Though, When He Smells My Cigar & Says, "Ummm, That Smells So Good!"

Steve · 06-04-2011, 08:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Remo_5_0

Dude, I have 3 girls, and they are gorgeous, I am seriously gonna either have a heart attack or be in prison when the boys start coming around!!!

At least we'll be together...wait, that didn't sound right. Especially in reference to prison

06-03-2011, 09:45 AM	#42
nofeardiver Feeling at Home Join Date: Aug 2009 First Name: Dan Location: Florida Posts: 561 Trading: (4)	Re: 3 year olds and cigars..... will have to look its and edgestar, i know the vino i bought from Larry(Ogre) has a key hole, he is looking for the key for me, so i can lock that one, the other one i might have to put one of those child proof plastic locks on it temporary....

06-03-2011, 10:05 AM	#44
awsmith4 Simple Pleasures - 2oL Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Albert Location: Marietta, Georgia Posts: 4,602 Trading: (111)	Re: 3 year olds and cigars..... I have a 4yr old boy and a 2yr old girl. I smoke cigars, I drink and I brew beer. They ask questions and I answer honestly. When the 4yr old has asked to try the cigar I said "When you are 18 you can". When he asked me why I told him because his body has to be big like mine (at which he points and laughs at my belly) and that just like driving, the law saw you have to be a certain age or the police will come and get you. Would this conversation work with an older kid, probably not but I am just learning as I go. My parents drank and smoked cigars in front of me and I always understood that I couldn't until I was older. By the way Remo, I haven't forgotten about you __________________ Its THIS easy to support our troops

06-03-2011, 10:07 AM	#45
Remo C.I.A Join Date: Feb 2011 First Name: Mike Location: Palm Harbor, Florida Posts: 12,597 Trading: (122)	Re: 3 year olds and cigars..... Good suggestions guys, thanks. Albert, I know __________________

06-03-2011, 10:08 AM	#46
357 Will herf for food Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Mike Location: Home is where I park it Posts: 4,075 Trading: (9)	Re: 3 year olds and cigars..... I too get this question from my 4 & 5 yr olds. They have gotten the smoking is bad for you stuff; my 5 yr old from school. Anyway, my wife smokes cigarettes, and they know they are bad for her. She's trying to quit now, but a but it is hard for the kids to understand the difference between cigarettes and cigars. They understand that some drinks are "grown up" drinks and that some grown ups smoke. That much get. Good luck. BTW, it's hard to think about some guy coming over to date my daughter (4) someday. That said I have a healthy firearm collection and I'm about 6'6" & 295. I promise you I will find a number of ways to put the fear of God into some poor kid's soul. __________________ “Eating and sleeping are the only activities that should be allowed to interrupt a man's enjoyment of his cigar;” Mark Twain

06-03-2011, 10:08 AM	#47
Ranger_B Have My Own Room Join Date: Apr 2009 First Name: Frank Location: North Carolina Posts: 1,321 Trading: (31)	Re: 3 year olds and cigars..... My wife has a 4 and 8 year old both girls. Whenever a box is on the steps the first thing they ask is if it is more cigars. Whoops guess I need to cut back. Anyway everytime it is cigars they are the first to open the boxes so they can smell them. I dont smoke near them unless we are hiking. When they ask about them I tell them I smoke cigars to relax.

06-03-2011, 12:25 PM	#50
mmblz .090909... Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: NH Posts: 4,031 Trading: (3)	Re: 3 year olds and cigars..... my 3 year old daughter told me my cigar was stinky the other day __________________ herf wear

06-03-2011, 10:28 PM	#53
shark Cigar Smokin' Patriot Join Date: Sep 2009 First Name: Ron Location: Michigan Posts: 3,584 Trading: (0)	Re: 3 year olds and cigars..... The way that I see it, you have nothing to explain to her. Adults do things that may seem strange to a child but that's the way that the world works. __________________ Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery None but ourselves can free our minds

06-03-2011, 10:39 PM	#55
shark Cigar Smokin' Patriot Join Date: Sep 2009 First Name: Ron Location: Michigan Posts: 3,584 Trading: (0)	Re: 3 year olds and cigars..... My Dad and a couple of his brothers used to spark up cigars whenever they got together when I was a kid. I didn't like the smell of them at the time (and I KNOW my Mom DIDN'T like cigars!!!), so I never bothered to question that. However, my Dad used to like smoking a pipe quite frequently, now that smell I liked! However, I never thought to get into Dad's tobacco, because I already knew that the consequences would be dire! SO here I sit, with cigar in hand...funny how that works, isn't it? I miss you Dad! I think my Dad and Uncles would approve of my choices in cigars, though. __________________ Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery None but ourselves can free our minds

06-04-2011, 08:28 AM	#58
longknocker Postwhore Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Greg Location: Mobile, Alabama Posts: 11,174 Trading: (82)	Re: 3 year olds and cigars..... I Have A 3 Year Old Grandson That Follows Me Everywhere & Wants To Do Every Thing I Do. I Explain To Him When He "Grows Up", He Can Decide If He Wants To Smoke Cigars, But Now He Is Too Young. He Understands! My Wife & Daughter Hate It, Though, When He Smells My Cigar & Says, "Ummm, That Smells So Good!"