Crushed. - Page 3

Stephen · 08-08-2011, 11:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Wolfgang

Well, My dog just died at the age of 15. That should keep my mind off things.

You and your girlfriend broke up AND your dog died? You're a living, breathing country song...

OLS · 07-02-2010, 05:32 PM

NO matter what happened, it is always for the best. A good woman sees a good man and stays. A woman
who will just end up screwing you over for cash anyway? It's better to let them go. let her go ruin some other
man's life. They look like flowers and music on the outside, but they are the most cunning, cruel things
on the planet. Every one who ever dumped me probably did the right thing, I have never stayed put anywhere
for very long, and I have never earned a big pile of cash as a result. Plus I work in a tough field for getting
rich to begin with. But when they left, I am sure they thought twice about the lovin'. There has never been
a better lover on the planet than me.

sikk50 · 07-02-2010, 06:35 PM

My gf of 2yrs broke up with me a month ago. There's two wys to get through it (I've had plenty of break ups lol).

Jerk move but fastest healing: Think of a break up as putting down your old dog. Now it's time to go find a puppy to help you forget. I recommend a higher class pet store (fine establishment with cocktails) not a pound with rescue puppies (club).

Less than jerk move: Keep talking to her which will cause you to hurt longer.

Good guy move: Smoke some cigars, get back in touch with friends you've drifted apart from in the last few years, smokes some cigars and drink some scotch.

SmokeyJoe · 07-02-2010, 08:32 PM

With your recent struggles, this came to mind:

7But we have this treasure in jars of clay to show that this all-surpassing power is from God and not from us. 8We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; 9persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed.
2 Corinthians 4:7-11 (New International Version)

AAlmeter · 07-02-2010, 08:39 PM

The only advice I'll add is to listen to the above posters.

I went through a really rough breakup a few years ago. To make it worse, I was somewhere in the middle of a 9 month stint of living in a hotel in a fairly desolate area of upstate NY in winter.

Someone posted a thread on here (or CS, can't remember) similar to yours. He was venting his misery and asking whether or not to keep up the effort to get her back. I believe it was Tom who came through with the sage advice of letting things be and moving on. I figured that my situation was different, no one has experienced the love I did, etc etc etc. Turns out, that advice I read given by a guy I never met in person to another guy I never met in person was spot on. I finally let go, and ended up meeting the wonderful girl I'm now engaged to.

Enjoy life, experience life, and listen to the Adm DB.

Chingas · 07-02-2010, 09:19 PM

Dude, your Dog too. I'm so sorry. Swing by Jersey before Tampa and we'll kick back, shoot the **** and have a smoke on me...

RGD. · 07-02-2010, 09:52 PM

As they say: Sh*t happens. And it normally happens for a reason. Sometimes you never get over or at least never forget. I still think about a girl, we were going to get married, then broke up. I've written about her and wrote to her - but never mailed them.

Then I met my wife - and that was like 33 years ago. So it's tough, it sucks, but eventually you will find the one that was meant for you.

Ron

Wolfgang · 07-05-2010, 10:43 AM

Thank you all for the support it helped me quite a bit.

Chingas · 07-05-2010, 10:50 AM

Whatever we can do to help brother. No worries.

Wolfgang · 07-05-2010, 10:54 AM

Ive actually got a date (per say) on Wednesday with a girl i've known for years. She is going to show me around campus and help me look for apartments.

Whee · 07-05-2010, 12:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Wolfgang

Ive actually got a date (per say) on Wednesday with a girl i've known for years. She is going to show me around campus and help me look for apartments.

GoodFella · 07-05-2010, 03:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Wolfgang

Ive actually got a date (per say) on Wednesday with a girl i've known for years. She is going to show me around campus and help me look for apartments.

things will get better, no matter how it feels. i have been in your shoes more then once. u are on the right path. you know that we are all here for you.

Chingas · 07-05-2010, 01:15 PM

Thumbs up brother. Rule one... DONT MENTION THE EX!

Wolfgang · 07-05-2010, 02:51 PM

I most certainly will not.

bruceolee · 08-08-2011, 10:02 AM

In my experience, you never truly get over it and at the risk of sounding like a springsteen song you learn to carry it with you. eventually, like many rough moments in life you get used to the pain and eventually forget it to a point. The hurt never goes away for good and anyone that says it does is in denial. thats just my opinion and in my experience it's the truth

Wolfgang · 07-05-2010, 03:28 PM

Thank you Rob. Time takes too long.

Wolfgang · 07-06-2010, 10:37 PM

Actually that took less time than I thought, I have three dates lined up this week haha. The funny part is they all come to me. you guys are spot on.

One things for sure, Im not diving in untill I know how deep the water is.

JE3146 · 07-06-2010, 11:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Wolfgang

Actually that took less time than I thought, I have three dates lined up this week haha. The funny part is they all come to me. you guys are spot on.

One things for sure, Im not diving in untill I know how deep the water is.

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Wolfgang · 07-06-2010, 11:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Virginia_Ghost

When you first go out with her, tell her the four magic words that will keep your relationship on track, from the first date through the 50th wedding anniversary...Four magic words, that if lived by mutually by both parties, all will be well...

You can be replaced.

HAHAH! You Sir (are making a scene) Bumpage

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Originally Posted by JE3146

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Oh Jordan, you would.

JE3146 · 07-07-2010, 12:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Wolfgang

Oh Jordan, you would.

Hope you would too

07-02-2010, 05:32 PM	#2
OLS Suck It Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Brad Location: TN Posts: 7,912 Trading: (19)	Re: Crushed. NO matter what happened, it is always for the best. A good woman sees a good man and stays. A woman who will just end up screwing you over for cash anyway? It's better to let them go. let her go ruin some other man's life. They look like flowers and music on the outside, but they are the most cunning, cruel things on the planet. Every one who ever dumped me probably did the right thing, I have never stayed put anywhere for very long, and I have never earned a big pile of cash as a result. Plus I work in a tough field for getting rich to begin with. But when they left, I am sure they thought twice about the lovin'. There has never been a better lover on the planet than me.

07-02-2010, 06:35 PM	#3
sikk50 Just Bored Really... Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Andrew Location: The Jefferson State Posts: 2,084 Trading: (13)	Re: Crushed. My gf of 2yrs broke up with me a month ago. There's two wys to get through it (I've had plenty of break ups lol). Jerk move but fastest healing: Think of a break up as putting down your old dog. Now it's time to go find a puppy to help you forget. I recommend a higher class pet store (fine establishment with cocktails) not a pound with rescue puppies (club). Less than jerk move: Keep talking to her which will cause you to hurt longer. Good guy move: Smoke some cigars, get back in touch with friends you've drifted apart from in the last few years, smokes some cigars and drink some scotch. __________________ "Not a Headache in a Hogshead"

07-02-2010, 08:32 PM	#4
SmokeyJoe Chief Wannastogie Lounge Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Joe Location: Raleigh, NC Posts: 3,164 Trading: (28)	Re: Crushed. With your recent struggles, this came to mind: 7But we have this treasure in jars of clay to show that this all-surpassing power is from God and not from us. 8We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; 9persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed. 2 Corinthians 4:7-11 (New International Version) __________________ "I intend to smoke a good cigar to the glory of God..." ~ Charles H. Spurgeon, British Baptist preacher

07-02-2010, 08:39 PM	#5
AAlmeter F.U.B.O. Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Adam Location: Buffalo Posts: 288 Trading: (0)	Re: Crushed. The only advice I'll add is to listen to the above posters. I went through a really rough breakup a few years ago. To make it worse, I was somewhere in the middle of a 9 month stint of living in a hotel in a fairly desolate area of upstate NY in winter. Someone posted a thread on here (or CS, can't remember) similar to yours. He was venting his misery and asking whether or not to keep up the effort to get her back. I believe it was Tom who came through with the sage advice of letting things be and moving on. I figured that my situation was different, no one has experienced the love I did, etc etc etc. Turns out, that advice I read given by a guy I never met in person to another guy I never met in person was spot on. I finally let go, and ended up meeting the wonderful girl I'm now engaged to. Enjoy life, experience life, and listen to the Adm DB.

07-02-2010, 09:19 PM	#6
Chingas Death Is Waiting Join Date: Jun 2010 First Name: Chingas Location: Slayerville, Jersey Posts: 5,295 Trading: (35)	Re: Crushed. Dude, your Dog too. I'm so sorry. Swing by Jersey before Tampa and we'll kick back, shoot the **** and have a smoke on me... __________________ ---Chingas--- ---Team Death Bomb Squad: Captain---

07-02-2010, 09:52 PM	#7
RGD. God Like Status Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Ron Location: Alexandria, Virginia Posts: 971 Trading: (1)	Re: Crushed. As they say: Sh*t happens. And it normally happens for a reason. Sometimes you never get over or at least never forget. I still think about a girl, we were going to get married, then broke up. I've written about her and wrote to her - but never mailed them. Then I met my wife - and that was like 33 years ago. So it's tough, it sucks, but eventually you will find the one that was meant for you. Ron

07-05-2010, 10:43 AM	#8
Wolfgang Back from the dead Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Tampa, Fl Posts: 2,541 Trading: (14)	Re: Crushed. Thank you all for the support it helped me quite a bit. __________________ You probably wont remember that test you failed, but you'll never forget the girl you were with the night before, when you decided not to study.

07-05-2010, 10:50 AM	#9
Chingas Death Is Waiting Join Date: Jun 2010 First Name: Chingas Location: Slayerville, Jersey Posts: 5,295 Trading: (35)	Re: Crushed. Whatever we can do to help brother. No worries. __________________ ---Chingas--- ---Team Death Bomb Squad: Captain---

07-05-2010, 10:54 AM	#10
Wolfgang Back from the dead Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Tampa, Fl Posts: 2,541 Trading: (14)	Re: Crushed. Ive actually got a date (per say) on Wednesday with a girl i've known for years. She is going to show me around campus and help me look for apartments. __________________ You probably wont remember that test you failed, but you'll never forget the girl you were with the night before, when you decided not to study.

07-05-2010, 01:15 PM	#13
Chingas Death Is Waiting Join Date: Jun 2010 First Name: Chingas Location: Slayerville, Jersey Posts: 5,295 Trading: (35)	Re: Crushed. Thumbs up brother. Rule one... DONT MENTION THE EX! __________________ ---Chingas--- ---Team Death Bomb Squad: Captain---

07-05-2010, 02:51 PM	#14
Wolfgang Back from the dead Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Tampa, Fl Posts: 2,541 Trading: (14)	Re: Crushed. I most certainly will not. __________________ You probably wont remember that test you failed, but you'll never forget the girl you were with the night before, when you decided not to study.

08-08-2011, 10:02 AM	#15
bruceolee King of Rants Join Date: Aug 2009 First Name: Jason Location: South Florida Posts: 1,227 Trading: (1)	Re: Crushed. In my experience, you never truly get over it and at the risk of sounding like a springsteen song you learn to carry it with you. eventually, like many rough moments in life you get used to the pain and eventually forget it to a point. The hurt never goes away for good and anyone that says it does is in denial. thats just my opinion and in my experience it's the truth __________________ “When I have found intense pain relieved, a weary brain soothed, and calm, refreshing sleep obtained by a cigar, I have felt grateful to God, and have blessed His name.” Spurgeon

07-05-2010, 03:28 PM	#16
Wolfgang Back from the dead Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Tampa, Fl Posts: 2,541 Trading: (14)	Re: Crushed. Thank you Rob. Time takes too long. __________________ You probably wont remember that test you failed, but you'll never forget the girl you were with the night before, when you decided not to study.

07-06-2010, 10:37 PM	#17
Wolfgang Back from the dead Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Tampa, Fl Posts: 2,541 Trading: (14)	Re: Crushed. Actually that took less time than I thought, I have three dates lined up this week haha. The funny part is they all come to me. you guys are spot on. One things for sure, Im not diving in untill I know how deep the water is. __________________ You probably wont remember that test you failed, but you'll never forget the girl you were with the night before, when you decided not to study.