Engagement Ring

gettysburgfreak · 10-25-2012, 08:51 PM

Starting to look around for an engagement ring and have considered several options ie. mall chain stores, a local jeweler, online retailer. I dont like the prices at the mall, the local jeweler seemed like an ok option but wasnt completely sold on him yet. A friend of mine mentioned beverlydiamond.com but the prices seem too good to be true. Has anyone heard of this place or know of another online retailer? Im leery of ordering online without seeing it first.

I want 1.5-2c round solitare
18k white gold band with diamonds halfway down each side of the band
Trying to stay near 12k

Any info would be appreciated, thanks

BigCat · 10-25-2012, 09:19 PM

I had a family friend in the jewelry business, so I can't help you much about the site. I will tell you that you need to pay attention to the color and clarity of the diamond. Color is judged on a scale of A-Z with D being colorless and considered the best. It is obviously more expensive than a G color with the same clarity at any given size. Color is what makes it sparkle when the light hits it. Clarity refers to inclusions in the stone itself. Depending on where they are located, they can cause the diamond to look cloudy. At today's prices, I do not think you will get a quality 2 karat diamond for 12,000. I'm skeptical you can get a 1.5 karat. If you can, it is going to be lower color and clarity. Low color and low grade clarity mean you have a big cloudy ring that doesn't sparkle. I went with a 1 karat with excellent color and good clarity and am really pleased with how it came out. But I did it about 7 years ago, when diamond prices were much lower. Good luck and congratulations on your impending engagement.

Fordman4ever · 10-25-2012, 09:22 PM

have you taken the lucky lady to look at rings? i did that about 1 year before i popped the question. helped me out a bunch

Fordman4ever · 10-25-2012, 09:22 PM

BTW, congrats.

Kevin(n)tn · 10-25-2012, 09:32 PM

My girlfriend and I have been looking. She liked Shane Co. They are online and have stores.

omowasu · 10-25-2012, 09:38 PM

Best place nationwide to get jewelry - Costco. Seriously, all of their jewelry is stunning and priced right. If you want to spend 12k, there is a lot to choose from:
http://www.costco.com/jewelry.html

Chicago also has an area called Jewelers Row on Wabash where you can negotiate a really good deal on a ring if you are in the Chicago area. I had my wifes custom made there.

Some suggestions - dont buy odd cuts like heart shape or pear shape as they dont hold as much value as regular cuts. Princess (square) cuts are in right now and sell for a premium. Bring a magnifying loupe with you to inspect the diamond carefully, and never trust a jewelers appraisal.

gettysburgfreak · 10-25-2012, 09:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Fordman4ever

have you taken the lucky lady to look at rings? i did that about 1 year before i popped the question. helped me out a bunch

Everytime we go to the mall she likes to browse so I have a good idea what she is looking for

Eleven · 10-25-2012, 09:53 PM

Congrats!

I think I'm going to look up my last response to a post like this, cause I don't feel like repeating myself. I have so much advice on this subject that my head wants to explode

(EDIT)

Just a quick one I looked up. 1.50ct round, H color, SI1 GIA certified, wg eng ring with 1/3ct tw: $14,482.00

It's going to be tough to stay at or below 12K with those specs.

mjdx88 · 10-25-2012, 10:39 PM

my 2 cents, find a local guy who will set the stone/cast the ring. By the stones from bluenile.com I just went through this whole thing....do your research. GIA is pretty standard but there is a legal tolerance to go up or down one grade so a color G can really be an H and vice versa a G can really be an F although unlikely in this case, this is true for all aspects of the stone. Its a lot more work but you will save a ton and get the ring you really want.

I would recommend to go for the smaller stone 1ct. but higher quality, it will show and you, your soon to be fiancée and others will notice

One last thing, Congrats! Its a roller coaster, enjoy it!

mjdx88 · 10-25-2012, 10:44 PM

BTW dont order the ring/band from bluenile.....i have not seen or heard a single good thing about them in that department but they do awesome with price/customer service in the diamond section, also if you do order a stone/ring from online get it shipped to work if you can....UPS/FEDEX has been known to leave these packages on door steps.....

Eleven · 10-25-2012, 11:16 PM

My

from a previous post:

Quote:

Originally Posted by Eleven

I have been in the business for over 25 years and here are a couple things that I tell my friends:

Get a certified diamond, preferably GIA certified, they are the gold standard for diamond certification.

14k or platinum solitaire settings never go out of style.

Stick with a standard shape diamond (this one is my preference but it has not failed), you cannot go wrong with a Round Brilliant Cut.

If had to choose between attributes, I always say to NEVER skimp on color. You'll find 1 million diamonds out there with the standard "G-H-I" color range, but once you place a D or E color diamond next to any of those, you'll never question this recommendation again.

Also, be aware of any place that uses ranges when specifying color or clarity. If they say G-H-I or I quality without being specific such as G color, SI2, then you can be sure it's at the low end of that range, and I can guarantee whatever cert they may produce will not be GIA.

Good Luck and Congrats!

icehog3 · 10-26-2012, 12:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by omowasu

Chicago also has an area called Jewelers Row on Wabash where you can negotiate a really good deal on a ring if you are in the Chicago area. I had my wifes custom made there.

Dozens of quality jewelers there where you can pick the stone and setting, and basically pay wholesale.

big pete · 10-26-2012, 05:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Eleven

My

from a previous post:

+1. I would sacrifice a little size for color and clarity. Your girls (and other girls) will notice the difference. I bought a engagement ring last year and got the stone through Bluenile and the ring at Shaneco.

BHalbrooks · 10-26-2012, 11:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Fordman4ever

have you taken the lucky lady to look at rings? i did that about 1 year before i popped the question. helped me out a bunch

I bet the suspense during that year KILLED her.
"I know this bastard is gonna propose...."
Congrats!

shark · 10-27-2012, 10:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by icehog3

Dozens of quality jewelers there where you can pick the stone and setting, and basically pay wholesale.

This. A little bit of education on the quality of the stones can go a long way. Why give her a substandard diamond, when this ring has so much importance? On the same note, why spend five grand on the diamond alone, when you can get an equal diamond for significantly less money? It can be done.

Congrats!

gettysburgfreak · 11-22-2012, 12:12 AM

Thanks for everyones input. Went to a local jeweler and picked out the stone and had the band custom made and set. She said yes and loves it.

omowasu · 11-22-2012, 01:32 AM

That is one great looking center stone! Congratulations!

mjdx88 · 11-22-2012, 07:50 PM

Nice, Congrats!

never_enough · 11-22-2012, 08:39 PM

Good looking ring. Congrats man!!!

Cigar Mike · 11-22-2012, 08:57 PM

Congrats!

10-25-2012, 08:51 PM	#1
gettysburgfreak Patriot Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: The Mitten Posts: 1,442 Trading: (2)	Engagement Ring Starting to look around for an engagement ring and have considered several options ie. mall chain stores, a local jeweler, online retailer. I dont like the prices at the mall, the local jeweler seemed like an ok option but wasnt completely sold on him yet. A friend of mine mentioned beverlydiamond.com but the prices seem too good to be true. Has anyone heard of this place or know of another online retailer? Im leery of ordering online without seeing it first. I want 1.5-2c round solitare 18k white gold band with diamonds halfway down each side of the band Trying to stay near 12k Any info would be appreciated, thanks __________________ Author ofeath, Disease, and Life at War: The Civil War Letters of Surgeon James D. Benton, 111th and 98th New York Infantry Regiments, 1862-1865.

10-25-2012, 09:19 PM	#2
BigCat My back is now unwatched. Join Date: Apr 2009 First Name: Colin Location: Metro Detroit Posts: 723 Trading: (5)	Re: Engagement Ring I had a family friend in the jewelry business, so I can't help you much about the site. I will tell you that you need to pay attention to the color and clarity of the diamond. Color is judged on a scale of A-Z with D being colorless and considered the best. It is obviously more expensive than a G color with the same clarity at any given size. Color is what makes it sparkle when the light hits it. Clarity refers to inclusions in the stone itself. Depending on where they are located, they can cause the diamond to look cloudy. At today's prices, I do not think you will get a quality 2 karat diamond for 12,000. I'm skeptical you can get a 1.5 karat. If you can, it is going to be lower color and clarity. Low color and low grade clarity mean you have a big cloudy ring that doesn't sparkle. I went with a 1 karat with excellent color and good clarity and am really pleased with how it came out. But I did it about 7 years ago, when diamond prices were much lower. Good luck and congratulations on your impending engagement. __________________ "Now, I don't approve of dissipation, and I don't indulge in it either; but I haven't a particle of confidence in a man who has no redeeming petty vices." Mark Twain

10-25-2012, 09:22 PM	#3
Fordman4ever Redneck driving a ricer!! Join Date: Dec 2010 First Name: Earl Location: A place too cold to smoke outside Posts: 2,508 Trading: (26)	Re: Engagement Ring have you taken the lucky lady to look at rings? i did that about 1 year before i popped the question. helped me out a bunch __________________

10-25-2012, 09:22 PM	#4
Fordman4ever Redneck driving a ricer!! Join Date: Dec 2010 First Name: Earl Location: A place too cold to smoke outside Posts: 2,508 Trading: (26)	Re: Engagement Ring BTW, congrats. __________________

10-25-2012, 09:32 PM	#5
Kevin(n)tn Still Watching My Back Join Date: Jun 2012 First Name: Kevin Location: Murfreesboro,Tn Posts: 106 Trading: (1)	Re: Engagement Ring My girlfriend and I have been looking. She liked Shane Co. They are online and have stores.

10-25-2012, 09:38 PM	#6
omowasu Fell ROTT Join Date: Jan 2009 First Name: Scott II Location: Chicago Posts: 288 Trading: (3)	Re: Engagement Ring Best place nationwide to get jewelry - Costco. Seriously, all of their jewelry is stunning and priced right. If you want to spend 12k, there is a lot to choose from: http://www.costco.com/jewelry.html Chicago also has an area called Jewelers Row on Wabash where you can negotiate a really good deal on a ring if you are in the Chicago area. I had my wifes custom made there. Some suggestions - dont buy odd cuts like heart shape or pear shape as they dont hold as much value as regular cuts. Princess (square) cuts are in right now and sell for a premium. Bring a magnifying loupe with you to inspect the diamond carefully, and never trust a jewelers appraisal. __________________ If I had something smart to say, I would definitely put it here.

10-25-2012, 09:53 PM	#8
Eleven Solid As The Sun Join Date: Aug 2009 First Name: Scott Location: SW Ohio Posts: 1,859 Trading: (23)	Re: Engagement Ring Congrats! I think I'm going to look up my last response to a post like this, cause I don't feel like repeating myself. I have so much advice on this subject that my head wants to explode (EDIT) Just a quick one I looked up. 1.50ct round, H color, SI1 GIA certified, wg eng ring with 1/3ct tw: $14,482.00 It's going to be tough to stay at or below 12K with those specs. __________________ CA: putting the 'man' in bromance since 2008! --markem. Last edited by Eleven; 10-25-2012 at 10:05 PM.

10-25-2012, 10:39 PM	#9
mjdx88 Still Watching My Back Join Date: Oct 2012 Posts: 133 Trading: (1)	Re: Engagement Ring my 2 cents, find a local guy who will set the stone/cast the ring. By the stones from bluenile.com I just went through this whole thing....do your research. GIA is pretty standard but there is a legal tolerance to go up or down one grade so a color G can really be an H and vice versa a G can really be an F although unlikely in this case, this is true for all aspects of the stone. Its a lot more work but you will save a ton and get the ring you really want. I would recommend to go for the smaller stone 1ct. but higher quality, it will show and you, your soon to be fiancée and others will notice One last thing, Congrats! Its a roller coaster, enjoy it!

10-25-2012, 10:44 PM	#10
mjdx88 Still Watching My Back Join Date: Oct 2012 Posts: 133 Trading: (1)	Re: Engagement Ring BTW dont order the ring/band from bluenile.....i have not seen or heard a single good thing about them in that department but they do awesome with price/customer service in the diamond section, also if you do order a stone/ring from online get it shipped to work if you can....UPS/FEDEX has been known to leave these packages on door steps.....

11-22-2012, 01:32 AM	#17
omowasu Fell ROTT Join Date: Jan 2009 First Name: Scott II Location: Chicago Posts: 288 Trading: (3)	Re: Engagement Ring That is one great looking center stone! Congratulations! __________________ If I had something smart to say, I would definitely put it here.

11-22-2012, 07:50 PM	#18
mjdx88 Still Watching My Back Join Date: Oct 2012 Posts: 133 Trading: (1)	Re: Engagement Ring Nice, Congrats!

11-22-2012, 08:39 PM	#19
never_enough Never Satisfied Join Date: Oct 2011 First Name: Robert Location: MA Posts: 650 Trading: (6)	Re: Engagement Ring Good looking ring. Congrats man!!! __________________ Why would I? More like why wouldn't I... Hahaha

11-22-2012, 08:57 PM	#20
Cigar Mike Thankful. Join Date: Jan 2012 First Name: Mike Location: Kingdom of Bahrain Posts: 153 Trading: (2)	Re: Engagement Ring Congrats!