Cigars and your Significant Other - Page 3

Blak Smyth · 07-30-2012, 01:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr. Ed

So, would you say it's mostly a money/spending/hoarding issue or the actual smoking issue that causes friction?

Yes

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Originally Posted by lenguamor

and when I kissed her it was like "Oh, hey, grandpa! Didn't know you were back from the dead!"

I have written some creepy posts but Damn!

lenguamor · 07-30-2012, 01:26 PM

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Originally Posted by irratebass

... I have to shower and brush my fangs and sanitize the mouth if I want some...

But that's just common courtesy, not to mention common sense. An ashtray doesn't smell good, no matter what cigar you smoked.

I once had a GF who smoked with me at the clubs we frequented; I always thought it was sexy as hell, until one night when we got home and were overcome by passion and didn't clean up a bit first; and when I kissed her it was like "Oh, hey, grandpa! Didn't know you were back from the dead!"

Mr. Ed · 07-30-2012, 01:28 PM

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Originally Posted by lenguamor

until one night when we got home and were overcome by passion and didn't clean up a bit first; and when I kissed her it was like "Oh, hey, grandpa! Didn't know you were back from the dead!"

Hey, IME if you've had enough to drink it cancels out, hehe.

BlkDrew · 07-30-2012, 01:37 PM

My wife doesn't mind, heck she even let's me have te spare room for my cigar rolling. She has had the occasional cigar like a Java or acid.

She just doesn't like me buying cigars... And now that I have hit the slippery slope everything is shipped to my parents house.

Blak Smyth · 07-30-2012, 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by BlkDrew

My wife doesn't mind, heck she even let's me have te spare room for my cigar rolling. She has had the occasional cigar like a Java or acid.

She just doesn't like me buying cigars... And now that I have hit the slippery slope everything is shipped to my parents house.

It seems that most have a method, luckily I am home first (90% of the time) and can put everything away quickly. Just gotta get lucky and have no packages arrive on those 10% days.

lenguamor · 07-30-2012, 01:20 PM

My ex-wife HATED when I smoked a cigar. Or did anything else which made me happy and didn't directly involve her.

My ex-wife is not with me anymore.

Ogre · 07-30-2012, 01:21 PM

Mine smokes them with me. She doesnt even mind if I stay out late with the boys at the B&Ms.

icehog3 · 07-30-2012, 01:27 PM

My ex-wife hated cigars, and by the end, I hated her.

Ashcan Bill · 07-30-2012, 01:41 PM

My wife is fine with it, although she worries a little about potential health risks. But she used to worry about my motorcycles too.

Of course she usually gives me a hard time if she sees a package arrive, just because she hates to miss taking advantage of a good opportunity. So I just make sure she doesn't see packages arrive.

icehog3 · 07-31-2012, 08:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Silound

I'm surprised I'm really the first one to say "Option #4" here!

There is no SO, therefore there is no complaining, and any money otherwise spent on said woman can instead be spent on more cigars

Not exactly.

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Originally Posted by icehog3

My ex-wife hated cigars, and by the end, I hated her.

Silound · 07-31-2012, 11:17 AM

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Originally Posted by icehog3

Not exactly.

Ok, so I didn't think of it that way

emopunker2004 · 07-30-2012, 01:44 PM

My wife supports my habbit/hobby but does not like the smell on me. The smell of cigars being smoked does not bother her, it's the breath and the smell of the clothes after.

jluck · 07-30-2012, 01:51 PM

My wife is pretty good about it but occasionally I get a text or talk after she checks the bank statement. "STOP BUYING CIGARS FOR A WHILE" I get. So now I have a personal checking account for my play money.

CigarNut · 07-30-2012, 02:28 PM

My wife does not hate it but she does not love it either. She was the one who suggested I pick up some cigars for a golfing vacation we took many years ago. Before that, I only smoked at golf tournaments when the vendors provided the cigars. Sometimes she regrets that suggestion

On the other hand she gets to buy shoes (or purses) when I buy cigars, so she has no probloem with my purchases

Bax · 07-30-2012, 02:36 PM

She hates everything about it but tolerates it since I could have so many vices that are waaaaaaay worse

Kevin(n)tn · 07-30-2012, 02:49 PM

It depends on her mood at the time. She has many and I just hope I smoke one on a good mood day.

08-07-2012, 03:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Bax

She hates everything about it but tolerates it since I could have so many vices that are waaaaaaay worse

Same here. Hey at least it ain't crack....or is it

Malakai · 07-30-2012, 03:56 PM

My GF doesn't mind. Only after I have smoked in the apartment and didn't air it out enough. She always tells me more cigars!! I always tell her more Shoes!! It's a nice trade off.

jovenhut · 07-30-2012, 03:58 PM

I ve been pretty lucky as she enjoys Cigars alot. Problem is she loves Opus X!

Mr. Ed · 07-30-2012, 04:07 PM

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Originally Posted by jovenhut

Problem is she loves Opus X!

View Poll Results: How does you Significant Other view your cigar hobby?
She loves it!	39	19.80%
She hates it!	40	20.30%
Somewhere in the middle.	118	59.90%
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07-30-2012, 01:20 PM	#6
lenguamor puta por Ninfas! Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Joe Location: The 305 again! Posts: 1,030 Trading: (23)	Re: Cigars and your Significant Other My ex-wife HATED when I smoked a cigar. Or did anything else which made me happy and didn't directly involve her. My ex-wife is not with me anymore. __________________

07-30-2012, 01:21 PM	#7
Ogre **CENSORED** Join Date: Apr 2010 First Name: Larry Location: Central Florida Posts: 12,068 Trading: (46)	Re: Cigars and your Significant Other Mine smokes them with me. She doesnt even mind if I stay out late with the boys at the B&Ms. __________________

07-30-2012, 01:27 PM	#8
icehog3 Admiral Douchebag Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Tom Location: Clermont, Kentucky Posts: 71,955 Trading: (60)	Re: Cigars and your Significant Other My ex-wife hated cigars, and by the end, I hated her. __________________ Thanks Dave, Julian, James, Kelly, Peter, Gerry, Dave, Mo, Frank, Týr and Mr. Mark!

07-30-2012, 01:41 PM	#9
Ashcan Bill Ol' Dude Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Bill Location: Henderson, NV Posts: 1,903 Trading: (6)	Re: Cigars and your Significant Other My wife is fine with it, although she worries a little about potential health risks. But she used to worry about my motorcycles too. Of course she usually gives me a hard time if she sees a package arrive, just because she hates to miss taking advantage of a good opportunity. So I just make sure she doesn't see packages arrive.

07-30-2012, 01:37 PM	#4
BlkDrew Rolling my own... Join Date: Dec 2009 First Name: Andrew Location: Rochester NY Posts: 807 Trading: (43)	Re: Cigars and your Significant Other My wife doesn't mind, heck she even let's me have te spare room for my cigar rolling. She has had the occasional cigar like a Java or acid. She just doesn't like me buying cigars... And now that I have hit the slippery slope everything is shipped to my parents house.

07-30-2012, 01:44 PM	#12
emopunker2004 Central Fla rollin Join Date: Jan 2011 First Name: Justin Location: Winter Springs, FL Posts: 6,171 Trading: (46)	Re: Cigars and your Significant Other My wife supports my habbit/hobby but does not like the smell on me. The smell of cigars being smoked does not bother her, it's the breath and the smell of the clothes after. __________________ Cigar Asylum: Where all are equal, unless you are from CA, then you are more equal.

07-30-2012, 01:51 PM	#13
jluck Way out there Join Date: Jan 2012 First Name: Jared Location: Oregon Posts: 1,289 Trading: (12)	Re: Cigars and your Significant Other My wife is pretty good about it but occasionally I get a text or talk after she checks the bank statement. "STOP BUYING CIGARS FOR A WHILE" I get. So now I have a personal checking account for my play money.

07-30-2012, 02:28 PM	#14
CigarNut Fck Cancer! Join Date: Jan 2009 First Name: Michael Location: Clermont, Florida Posts: 18,042 Trading: (111*)	Re: Cigars and your Significant Other My wife does not hate it but she does not love it either. She was the one who suggested I pick up some cigars for a golfing vacation we took many years ago. Before that, I only smoked at golf tournaments when the vendors provided the cigars. Sometimes she regrets that suggestion On the other hand she gets to buy shoes (or purses) when I buy cigars, so she has no probloem with my purchases __________________ Need Beads? Need Five Finger Bags? 2 of 3 Requirements for use of the CA Rolodex: 100 posts/ 60 day membership/ participation in trade (trader rating). New members can be added at any time.

07-30-2012, 02:36 PM	#15
Bax C A P S...CAPS CAPS CAPS! Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Tim Location: Ringgold,GA Posts: 2,173 Trading: (70)	Re: Cigars and your Significant Other She hates everything about it but tolerates it since I could have so many vices that are waaaaaaay worse __________________ I'm the most interesting man in the world... but only if you find stupid stuff really interesting.

07-30-2012, 02:49 PM	#16
Kevin(n)tn Still Watching My Back Join Date: Jun 2012 First Name: Kevin Location: Murfreesboro,Tn Posts: 106 Trading: (1)	Re: Cigars and your Significant Other It depends on her mood at the time. She has many and I just hope I smoke one on a good mood day.

07-30-2012, 03:56 PM	#18
Malakai Feeling at Home Join Date: Apr 2012 First Name: John Location: Tucson, AZ Posts: 799 Trading: (34)	Re: Cigars and your Significant Other My GF doesn't mind. Only after I have smoked in the apartment and didn't air it out enough. She always tells me more cigars!! I always tell her more Shoes!! It's a nice trade off.

07-30-2012, 03:58 PM	#19
jovenhut Feeling at Home Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Bruce Location: Eugene - Oregon Posts: 580 Trading: (64)	Re: Cigars and your Significant Other I ve been pretty lucky as she enjoys Cigars alot. Problem is she loves Opus X! __________________ "Sweet Sugary Goodness"