Advice needed - want a pistol

I agree with go to the range and rent many types and and models, I would like to add to be mindful of your objective, if you want to just plink I would recommended the smaller more economical calibers 22 LR, and 9mm maybe even a 380 or 38 super. Prices in my area vary. If you plan on carry their is a buffet of top notch carry pistols but be mindful again of your budget do research alot of research and like you already have it your head and most have mentioned ask around the best advice is usually word of mouth from an old timer.

What your looking for in a pistol also determines your selection, be sure that the grip and length and thickness of the grip/back strap fits your hand you want to be comfortable when you fire your weapon I suggest either going with somebody that knows how to shoot or take a basic shooting course like a NRA basic or something.

A trend now with some the poly framed weapons is inter changeable back straps so you can try different sizes and textures. I like the S&W MP and the FNH FNX series of pistols for this fact.

So in review:

1) Looking around and do research
2) Be mindful of use and budget
3) Ask a friend or ask a dealer for advice even holding the weapon could give you a good idea what your looking for
4) Shoot and enjoy, guns are a wonderful hobby and one you can enjoy for years