What would you do? - Page 2

Big_Ern · 06-27-2011, 06:09 AM

just make sure he sits up front next to you for the ride there and back. otherwise one might crash due from staring in the rear view mirror. you could also let him know you have a meat grinder and really good friend who is a hog farmer in the next state!

blugill · 06-24-2011, 11:00 AM

Will do!
Is there a cigar shop around Bonner Springs?
Posted via Mobile Device

lbowles2 · 06-24-2011, 11:13 AM

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Originally Posted by blugill

Will do!
Is there a cigar shop around Bonner Springs?
Posted via Mobile Device

Not too far away is Outlaw North

And I would say nope... he can't go with us... but that's just the dad of a 4 yr old girl talking

RevSmoke · 06-24-2011, 11:14 AM

Tell the daughter the he can go along - if , and only if the boyfriend comes to you, asks if he can come along, after introducing himself, shaking your hand and spending a little time talking to you.

If he cannot do that, then no, he cannot go along.

I had a girl I dated for about a year while in high school, her dad and I became very close. When she and I broke up, he and I still did stuff together on occasion.

Man cannot face the father, he doesn't deserve to date the daughter.

And yeah, I know the rules are meant to be humorous - but there is much to be said for the truthes contained therein.

Peace of the Lord be with you.

jledou · 06-24-2011, 11:23 AM

Around the area Andy there is Outlaw - North and South locations, Diebels on the Plaza and their south store in Leawood and Cigar&Tabac in Overland Park. All are a little drive from Bonner unfortunately.

Blak Smyth · 06-24-2011, 11:48 AM

Okay here are two examples of why you gotta watch out for your daughters, even if they are right next to you.

I know "somebody" that was 15 and received an HJ from his girlfriend while riding in the back seat of her family car, while her mom was driving. On another occasion this "somebody" got an HJ from her again while watching a movie in the living room of her house while watching the movie IT, her mom was in the other room cooking dinner.

Lesson for parents:
Don't trust boys and girls, they are always up to no good.

Note: Maybe Slug didn't talk to you because you scare him, fear goes a long way at preventing premature HJ's!

I hope this wasn't too racy! Sorry if it was.

racerX · 06-24-2011, 04:42 PM

Wise choice and one you may be glad you made when the sun goes down on July 6th in Bonner springs. This also gives you an opening to call Slugs folks for a little back ground check.

forgop · 06-24-2011, 04:43 PM

The joys of teenage daughters. I have an 8 year old that's going on 18 in her opinion. First thing is that my daughter won't be leaving the house without said introduction and a full account of where they're going and who they will be with. If they're going to be with friends, I will need phone numbers of those parents to ensure they're aware of the same story. The young man will also go on a walk with me around the block explaining the expectations of dating my daughter in terms of never lying to me, if they're anywhere that something is taking place that she shouldn't be around, they leave and notify me, no drugs, alcohol, tobacco, and she better be home by curfew. Failure to comply will result in him being found floating in my pond from an accidental drowning.

It also just happens that I have a MobileMe account and my daughters phones will be linked. It can give me their location at any moment. Failure to be where they're supposed to be when they say they'll be there will result in me hunting them down and dragging him out by his ear with a pair of pliers.

But that's just me.

shark · 06-24-2011, 04:52 PM

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Originally Posted by forgop

The joys of teenage daughters. I have an 8 year old that's going on 18 in her opinion. First thing is that my daughter won't be leaving the house without said introduction and a full account of where they're going and who they will be with. If they're going to be with friends, I will need phone numbers of those parents to ensure they're aware of the same story. The young man will also go on a walk with me around the block explaining the expectations of dating my daughter in terms of never lying to me, if they're anywhere that something is taking place that she shouldn't be around, they leave and notify me, no drugs, alcohol, tobacco, and she better be home by curfew. Failure to comply will result in him being found floating in my pond from an accidental drowning.

It also just happens that I have a MobileMe account and my daughters phones will be linked. It can give me their location at any moment. Failure to be where they're supposed to be when they say they'll be there will result in me hunting them down and dragging him out by his ear with a pair of pliers.

But that's just me.

I like the way this man thinks! After all, we were all teenagers at one point. I'll leave it at that!

Remo · 06-24-2011, 04:43 PM

Just don't bury the bodies in your yard, and unless there is video evidence, deny, deny, deny

shark · 06-24-2011, 04:49 PM

Even when I was in my thirties and dating, I took the time to meet my girlfriend's parents, and made it a point to leave them with a good impression of me.

Blak Smyth · 06-27-2011, 06:21 AM

I just watched Uncle Buck this weekend and this thread made me think of when he puts Bug in his truck.

68TriShield · 06-27-2011, 07:04 AM

I say no.It seems nobody has given him a talk on how to be a man and meet and shake hands with the dad.
And that shows a lack of respect on his part.If he can't figure that out on his own,his personality leaves much to be desired.
He obviously hasn't had any guidance from his own father or step father.

DPD6030 · 06-27-2011, 07:26 AM

I'm with most here and say no. If he can't respect you and shake your hand and have a talk with you then how is he going to respect your daughter.

to taking him.

justonemorestick · 06-27-2011, 03:50 PM

Take him along but first take him out in the woods desert old farmland etc and give him a shovel and make him dig the hole for you and explain that you have rules and expectations that he will take care of your daughter and her friend and respect your rules. After that let him go besides if she has stupid with her she has at least one reason not to hookup with Mr Concert Dumass while she is there.

kelmac07 · 06-27-2011, 05:32 PM

I'd say no as well...she is 16 and should consider herself lucky to be going with her best friend. That should be enough. But I realize kids today are part of that "instant gratification" generation. The expect everything NOW. Best of luck in your decision dad.

area51 · 06-27-2011, 06:23 PM

Nothing good will come of him going, or him staying behind.

blugill · 06-28-2011, 05:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by area51

Nothing good will come of him going, or him staying behind.

Don't I know it.
Thankfully I believe the shelf life on this boyfriend is short lived.

Gophernut · 06-28-2011, 12:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by blugill

Don't I know it.
Thankfully I believe the shelf life on this boyfriend is short lived.

They mostly all are at that age. Don't sweat it. Be nice, the kid is probably just afraid of you. I know my daughter's "boyfriends" all were of me.

06-27-2011, 06:09 AM	#1
Big_Ern Still Watching My Back Join Date: Apr 2010 First Name: Ernie Location: Winnipeg, Canada Posts: 158 Trading: (1)	Re: What would you do? just make sure he sits up front next to you for the ride there and back. otherwise one might crash due from staring in the rear view mirror. you could also let him know you have a meat grinder and really good friend who is a hog farmer in the next state! __________________ Love those Maduros

06-24-2011, 11:00 AM	#2
blugill Feeling at Home Join Date: Dec 2008 First Name: Andy Location: Enid, Oklahoma Posts: 867 Trading: (10)	Re: What would you do? Will do! Is there a cigar shop around Bonner Springs? Posted via Mobile Device

06-24-2011, 11:14 AM	#4
RevSmoke Ain't Never Gonna Leave Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Todd Location: Northcentral woods of Wisconsin Posts: 6,881 Trading: (51)	Re: What would you do? Tell the daughter the he can go along - if , and only if the boyfriend comes to you, asks if he can come along, after introducing himself, shaking your hand and spending a little time talking to you. If he cannot do that, then no, he cannot go along. I had a girl I dated for about a year while in high school, her dad and I became very close. When she and I broke up, he and I still did stuff together on occasion. Man cannot face the father, he doesn't deserve to date the daughter. And yeah, I know the rules are meant to be humorous - but there is much to be said for the truthes contained therein. Peace of the Lord be with you. __________________ Todd__ "Smoke what you like, and enjoy it!"

06-24-2011, 11:23 AM	#5
jledou Have My Own Room Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Jay Location: Kansas Posts: 2,247 Trading: (27)	Re: What would you do? Around the area Andy there is Outlaw - North and South locations, Diebels on the Plaza and their south store in Leawood and Cigar&Tabac in Overland Park. All are a little drive from Bonner unfortunately.

06-24-2011, 11:48 AM	#6
Blak Smyth Think Blue! Join Date: Jun 2011 First Name: SD Location: THE WOOD Posts: 8,486 Trading: (52)	Re: What would you do? Okay here are two examples of why you gotta watch out for your daughters, even if they are right next to you. I know "somebody" that was 15 and received an HJ from his girlfriend while riding in the back seat of her family car, while her mom was driving. On another occasion this "somebody" got an HJ from her again while watching a movie in the living room of her house while watching the movie IT, her mom was in the other room cooking dinner. Lesson for parents: Don't trust boys and girls, they are always up to no good. Note: Maybe Slug didn't talk to you because you scare him, fear goes a long way at preventing premature HJ's! I hope this wasn't too racy! Sorry if it was.

06-24-2011, 04:42 PM	#7
racerX Adjusting to the Life Join Date: Mar 2011 First Name: john Location: Mesa AZ Posts: 261 Trading: (0)	Re: What would you do? Wise choice and one you may be glad you made when the sun goes down on July 6th in Bonner springs. This also gives you an opening to call Slugs folks for a little back ground check.

06-24-2011, 04:43 PM	#8
forgop Not a puffer Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Duane Location: Indianapolis, IN Posts: 2,869 Trading: (40)	Re: What would you do? The joys of teenage daughters. I have an 8 year old that's going on 18 in her opinion. First thing is that my daughter won't be leaving the house without said introduction and a full account of where they're going and who they will be with. If they're going to be with friends, I will need phone numbers of those parents to ensure they're aware of the same story. The young man will also go on a walk with me around the block explaining the expectations of dating my daughter in terms of never lying to me, if they're anywhere that something is taking place that she shouldn't be around, they leave and notify me, no drugs, alcohol, tobacco, and she better be home by curfew. Failure to comply will result in him being found floating in my pond from an accidental drowning. It also just happens that I have a MobileMe account and my daughters phones will be linked. It can give me their location at any moment. Failure to be where they're supposed to be when they say they'll be there will result in me hunting them down and dragging him out by his ear with a pair of pliers. But that's just me.

06-24-2011, 04:43 PM	#10
Remo C.I.A Join Date: Feb 2011 First Name: Mike Location: Palm Harbor, Florida Posts: 12,597 Trading: (122)	Re: What would you do? Just don't bury the bodies in your yard, and unless there is video evidence, deny, deny, deny __________________

06-24-2011, 04:49 PM	#11
shark Cigar Smokin' Patriot Join Date: Sep 2009 First Name: Ron Location: Michigan Posts: 3,632 Trading: (0)	Re: What would you do? Even when I was in my thirties and dating, I took the time to meet my girlfriend's parents, and made it a point to leave them with a good impression of me. __________________ Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery None but ourselves can free our minds

06-27-2011, 06:21 AM	#12
Blak Smyth Think Blue! Join Date: Jun 2011 First Name: SD Location: THE WOOD Posts: 8,486 Trading: (52)	Re: What would you do? I just watched Uncle Buck this weekend and this thread made me think of when he puts Bug in his truck.

06-27-2011, 07:04 AM	#13
68TriShield Got Torque? Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Dave Location: Maryland Posts: 7,195 Trading: (40)	Re: What would you do? I say no.It seems nobody has given him a talk on how to be a man and meet and shake hands with the dad. And that shows a lack of respect on his part.If he can't figure that out on his own,his personality leaves much to be desired. He obviously hasn't had any guidance from his own father or step father.

06-27-2011, 07:26 AM	#14
DPD6030 Shepard of the sheeple Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Andrew Location: The Mitten Posts: 7,166 Trading: (151)	Re: What would you do? I'm with most here and say no. If he can't respect you and shake your hand and have a talk with you then how is he going to respect your daughter. to taking him.

06-27-2011, 03:50 PM	#15
justonemorestick Kat Krap Kontanment Media Join Date: Oct 2010 First Name: Warren Location: Las Cruces Posts: 292 Trading: (13)	Re: What would you do? Take him along but first take him out in the woods desert old farmland etc and give him a shovel and make him dig the hole for you and explain that you have rules and expectations that he will take care of your daughter and her friend and respect your rules. After that let him go besides if she has stupid with her she has at least one reason not to hookup with Mr Concert Dumass while she is there. __________________ This message was created entirely of recycled electrons, manufactured before 1899 in an effort to prevent global de-electrification.

06-27-2011, 05:32 PM	#16
kelmac07 Resident Maduro Whore!! Join Date: Apr 2009 First Name: Mac Location: Newport News, VA Posts: 27,322 Trading: (218)	Re: What would you do? I'd say no as well...she is 16 and should consider herself lucky to be going with her best friend. That should be enough. But I realize kids today are part of that "instant gratification" generation. The expect everything NOW. Best of luck in your decision dad. __________________ Dom in the MLB thread "I could probably get you to wear a Yankee hat for a Maduro!"

06-27-2011, 06:23 PM	#17
area51 Blowing Smoke Rings Join Date: Sep 2010 First Name: Ken Location: Tejas Posts: 1,259 Trading: (3)	Re: What would you do? Nothing good will come of him going, or him staying behind. __________________

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