When it rains it pours doesn't it?

Someone crashed into Wife's new car yesterday.

Today I find oil and coolant staining on the garage floor from her old car (Mazda) that I'm driving now, it idles weird too and throws a CEL now and then.. all in the last month! (I gave up my 08 GTI so she could have a newer/more efficient car and we can only afford one car payment)

Brand new Insinkerator disposer went out this morning, just had that put in 2 weeks ago.

It seems like I'm never gonna get anywhere when everything is falling apart.