Be Grateful

10-10-2009, 07:47 PM

Things have been kinda rough around here the past couple of years as it has for many. Stress levels high and many sleepless nights with worry. One morning a couple of weeks ago I was having breakfast with Alina as we always do. I had noticed that the previous few days Alina was much more at ease and much happier than I have seen her in a long time. I told her it was nice to see her smile more as of late. She then told me that each morning when she wakes, she tells herself to be grateful. Simply be grateful for what she has. She then thinks of all the things she/we have to be grateful for and it makes her smile and the days troubles seem not so overwhelming. So, now I do the same. Each morning I tell myself, be grateful, and I run through all the things I have to be grateful for. I have a fantastic wife, three unbelievable sons, a roof over my head, a job and the friends I have made on CA. It's a simple thing to do, reminding yourself to be grateful, but life has a way of making it hard to see the forest for the trees sometimes.

The friendships that I have here have helped not only me but my family as well through some very stressful times. I have been fortunate to have met some of these people in person. However, many more (and some of the closest) I have yet to meet in person and I might not ever get the chance to shake their hand. That's okay, I'm grateful we have CA to help keep us close.

Give it a try one morning when you have had a bad few days and see if it makes your day any better.

Wishing each of you and yours the best that life has to offer.

pnoon · 10-10-2009, 07:49 PM

Well put, Al.

I have a motto which summarizes your post - "The glass is ALWAYS half full."

dunng · 10-10-2009, 07:51 PM

chippewastud79 · 10-10-2009, 07:56 PM

Very well put Al. As I like to say, "I'm too blessed to be depressed."

captain53 · 10-10-2009, 08:07 PM

Times are difficult and most of us are distressed or depressed to some degree. Once in a while we are better to recognize the good friends and family we have as well admitting we are truly blessed to be as well off as we are.

Thanks for bringing the thought forward!

Conch Republican · 10-10-2009, 08:12 PM

Having an attitude of gratitude always helps!

Starscream · 10-10-2009, 08:17 PM

Well said.

G G · 10-10-2009, 08:34 PM

Thanks once again Al, for bringing me down to earth buddy.

md4958 · 10-10-2009, 08:44 PM

Old Sailor · 10-10-2009, 08:45 PM

RevSmoke · 10-10-2009, 08:47 PM

Glad to hear this.

I have taken a couple mottos.

1) When the glass is empty, that simply means it is waiting for you to fill it with what you want in it.

2) I vowed to make no more New Year's or Lenten Vows. I have kept those promises since 1995.

3) Take a moment each day to hug someone near you. When you discover how much THEY needed it, your issues pale in comparison.

4) If your day is crappy, sit back - pour yourself a short one - pick out a cigar - and think about fishing with your children. (Always puts me in a good mood.)

elderboy02 · 10-10-2009, 08:47 PM

Well said Al. Thanks

SmokeyJoe · 10-10-2009, 10:10 PM

Al... you are absolutely right.

Thanks for being one of the people I am grateful for in my life.

10-10-2009, 10:33 PM

Thanks Al.

awsmith4 · 10-10-2009, 11:13 PM

Amen brother!

14holestogie · 10-10-2009, 11:54 PM

Well said, Al. Being my usual pessimistic self, I need to remind myself constantly how good I actually have it. With family and friends, if all else would disappear, life would still be good.

DPD6030 · 10-11-2009, 01:38 AM

I need to start doing this more often.

Scottw · 10-11-2009, 08:51 AM

Nicely put Al. Alina hit the nail on the head with this one.

Blueface · 10-11-2009, 08:58 AM

Al,
Great thoughts.
I HAVE to follow that concept daily as otherwise, a condition can set in. A condition that causes some to rely on meds to contain it, but something I completely refrain from. I have learned to fight it with happy thoughts. This week was a challenge for me as you and many know. Wasn't easy to readily come up with "happy" thoughts but I did it eventually and have moved on for now.
Hang in there. If it has anything to do with that dreaded "d", same word as what happened in America in the late 20's to late 30's word (depression for some that may be scratching their heads and haven't figured it all out yet

), after 50 years, I am a pro at fighting it and am here to lend a hand.

Don Fernando · 10-11-2009, 12:44 PM

Great post Al.

As many of you know, I am a fan of Living Colour and one of their songs "this is the life" has lyrics that put me down to earth everytime I need it, and it goes well with the theme of this topic.

Quote:

In another life
You might have been a genius
In another life
You might have been a star
In another life
Your face might have been perfect
In another life
You’d drive a better car

In another life
All your jokes are funny
In another life
Your heart is free from fear
In another life
You make a lot of money
In this other life
Everything is clear

In another life
You’re always the hero
In another life
You always win the game
In another life
No one ever cheats you
In another life
You never have to change

In another life
Your friends never desert you
In another life
You never have to cry
In another life
No one ever hurts you
In this other life
Your loved-ones never die

But this is the life you have
This is the life you have
This is the life you have
This is the life

In another life
You’re always the victim
In another life
You’re always the thief
In another life
You are always lonely
In this other life
There is no relief

In your real life
Treat it like it’s special
In your real life
Try to be more kind
In your real life
Think of those that love you
In this real life
Try to be less blind

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6okNaPSRdlI

10-10-2009, 07:47 PM	#1
ahc4353 Guest Posts: n/a	Be Grateful Things have been kinda rough around here the past couple of years as it has for many. Stress levels high and many sleepless nights with worry. One morning a couple of weeks ago I was having breakfast with Alina as we always do. I had noticed that the previous few days Alina was much more at ease and much happier than I have seen her in a long time. I told her it was nice to see her smile more as of late. She then told me that each morning when she wakes, she tells herself to be grateful. Simply be grateful for what she has. She then thinks of all the things she/we have to be grateful for and it makes her smile and the days troubles seem not so overwhelming. So, now I do the same. Each morning I tell myself, be grateful, and I run through all the things I have to be grateful for. I have a fantastic wife, three unbelievable sons, a roof over my head, a job and the friends I have made on CA. It's a simple thing to do, reminding yourself to be grateful, but life has a way of making it hard to see the forest for the trees sometimes. The friendships that I have here have helped not only me but my family as well through some very stressful times. I have been fortunate to have met some of these people in person. However, many more (and some of the closest) I have yet to meet in person and I might not ever get the chance to shake their hand. That's okay, I'm grateful we have CA to help keep us close. Give it a try one morning when you have had a bad few days and see if it makes your day any better. Wishing each of you and yours the best that life has to offer.

10-10-2009, 07:49 PM	#2
pnoon YNWA Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Peter Location: San Diego Posts: 29,919 Trading: (20)	Re: Be Grateful Well put, Al. I have a motto which summarizes your post - "The glass is ALWAYS half full." __________________ Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are. -John Wooden

10-10-2009, 07:51 PM	#3
dunng MassHole Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Greg Location: MassHole Posts: 4,719 Trading: (59)	Re: Be Grateful __________________ MassHole Banter

10-10-2009, 07:56 PM	#4
chippewastud79 Fatter than you! Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Larry Location: A little place called home. Posts: 5,397 Trading: (44)	Re: Be Grateful Very well put Al. As I like to say, "I'm too blessed to be depressed." __________________ If we weren't supposed to eat animals, then how come they're made of meat? You can never have too many cigars, they are like an investment in good times.

10-10-2009, 08:07 PM	#5
captain53 Have My Own Room Join Date: Jul 2009 First Name: Dave Location: Lake of the Ozarks & Austin, TX Posts: 1,333 Trading: (3)	Re: Be Grateful Times are difficult and most of us are distressed or depressed to some degree. Once in a while we are better to recognize the good friends and family we have as well admitting we are truly blessed to be as well off as we are. Thanks for bringing the thought forward!

10-10-2009, 08:12 PM	#6
Conch Republican 10-78 Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Margaritaville Posts: 2,878 Trading: (60)	Re: Be Grateful Having an attitude of gratitude always helps! __________________ "Ceiling fan stirs the air, the cigar smoke does swirl" --Jimmy Buffett You can help out and win some cool stuff in the 2016 Troop Support supplies contest!

10-10-2009, 08:17 PM	#7
Starscream Knowhutimean, Vern? Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Andy Location: In a little town somewhere in the USA Posts: 10,237 Trading: (4)	Re: Be Grateful Well said. __________________ Insert quote here.

10-10-2009, 08:34 PM	#8
G G BR549 Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Greg Location: Taylor, FL. Posts: 12,726 Trading: (10)	Re: Be Grateful Thanks once again Al, for bringing me down to earth buddy.

10-10-2009, 08:44 PM	#9
md4958 Captain Cannoli Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Moe Location: Suffield, CT Posts: 5,712 Trading: (62)	Re: Be Grateful __________________ "One fart can foul the air for everyone" - Esteemed philosopher "If avoiding the nasty $hit is being a snob, them I am guilty as charged."- Same esteemed philosopher.

10-10-2009, 08:45 PM	#10
Old Sailor Black Ops - S.O.B. Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Dave Location: Side Porta!! Kingsville, Ont., Canada Posts: 4,201 Trading: (22)	Re: Be Grateful __________________ Canadian Armed Forces 1976! Canadian Coast Guard, retired in 2012 after 32 years!!

10-10-2009, 08:47 PM	#11
RevSmoke Ain't Never Gonna Leave Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Todd Location: Northcentral woods of Wisconsin Posts: 6,849 Trading: (51)	Re: Be Grateful Glad to hear this. I have taken a couple mottos. 1) When the glass is empty, that simply means it is waiting for you to fill it with what you want in it. 2) I vowed to make no more New Year's or Lenten Vows. I have kept those promises since 1995. 3) Take a moment each day to hug someone near you. When you discover how much THEY needed it, your issues pale in comparison. 4) If your day is crappy, sit back - pour yourself a short one - pick out a cigar - and think about fishing with your children. (Always puts me in a good mood.) __________________ Todd__ "Smoke what you like, and enjoy it!"

10-10-2009, 08:47 PM	#12
elderboy02 Lets Go Buckeyes! Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Dan Location: Cincinnati, OH Posts: 12,508 Trading: (133)	Re: Be Grateful Well said Al. Thanks

10-10-2009, 10:10 PM	#13
SmokeyJoe Chief Wannastogie Lounge Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Joe Location: Raleigh, NC Posts: 3,163 Trading: (28)	Re: Be Grateful Al... you are absolutely right. Thanks for being one of the people I am grateful for in my life. __________________ "I intend to smoke a good cigar to the glory of God..." ~ Charles H. Spurgeon, British Baptist preacher

10-10-2009, 10:33 PM	#14
kayaker Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Be Grateful Thanks Al.

10-10-2009, 11:13 PM	#15
awsmith4 Simple Pleasures - 2oL Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Albert Location: Marietta, Georgia Posts: 4,602 Trading: (111)	Re: Be Grateful Amen brother! __________________ Its THIS easy to support our troops

10-10-2009, 11:54 PM	#16
14holestogie Serial banter killer Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Tim Location: Clintonville, WI Posts: 4,341 Trading: (52)	Re: Be Grateful Well said, Al. Being my usual pessimistic self, I need to remind myself constantly how good I actually have it. With family and friends, if all else would disappear, life would still be good. __________________ *I loves me a Parti*

10-11-2009, 01:38 AM	#17
DPD6030 Shepard of the sheeple Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Andrew Location: The Mitten Posts: 7,166 Trading: (151)	Re: Be Grateful I need to start doing this more often.

10-11-2009, 08:51 AM	#18
Scottw Going Commando Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Scott Location: Sussex, NJ Posts: 2,815 Trading: (6)	Re: Be Grateful Nicely put Al. Alina hit the nail on the head with this one.

10-11-2009, 08:58 AM	#19
Blueface Gramps 4x's Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Horatio Seymore Hiny Location: Boca Raton - North of La Habana Posts: 8,774 Trading: (8)	Re: Be Grateful Al, Great thoughts. I HAVE to follow that concept daily as otherwise, a condition can set in. A condition that causes some to rely on meds to contain it, but something I completely refrain from. I have learned to fight it with happy thoughts. This week was a challenge for me as you and many know. Wasn't easy to readily come up with "happy" thoughts but I did it eventually and have moved on for now. Hang in there. If it has anything to do with that dreaded "d", same word as what happened in America in the late 20's to late 30's word (depression for some that may be scratching their heads and haven't figured it all out yet), after 50 years, I am a pro at fighting it and am here to lend a hand. __________________ Little known fact: I am a former member of the Village People - The Indian