A night I will NEVER forget!

12-13-2008, 12:49 PM

As some of you know my sons have played hockey since they were very young. Of course when they are small they want to grow up and be professional hockey players. As the years go by they realize that that's not going to happen so they set their sights on college hockey. Al Jr. made the Penn State hockey team this year and last night he got his first opportunity to dress for a game. So Alina, Mitch and I made the 3.5 hour ride to PSU for his first ever college game. To say I was nervous for him would be an understatement.

As I was having my pre-game cigar (as I always do) I thought back over all the years and the sacrifices that not only Jr. has made but the entire family has made to get to this point in his hockey life. Limited vacations, Christmas's with fewer gifts than other kids, late night practice schedules, homework to carry Honor Roll grades and gym workout schedules all had to get done. And all without one complaint.

Reflecting on all of that with my cigar I realized no matter what happened in this game it made no difference, he had reached his goal. All the hard work and effort had paid off, he was playing in his first college game. I was just so proud of him for his hard work and dedication over the years no matter what happened no one could take that away from him or me.

So, first shift he jumps the boards and bolts to the offensive zone, trips over his own feet and goes right on his a$$!

The think the nerves of playing in his first game coupled with playing in front of 1,100+ vs. what he was used to (a handful of parents) got the best of him. Anyway, the fans, team and coach's had a good laugh at his expense. Once he got through that first shift he seemed to relax and play his game. I did not expect him to get much ice time but he played a lot! Towards the end of the game players were forgoing their shifts so he could take their spot as they wanted him to get his first college point. That will have to wait for another day but does that gesture show you what kind of guys are on that team or what!

After the game you could not have taken the smile off his face or mine with a crowbar! I gave him a hug, told him how proud I was of him and headed home.

Alina and I are looking forward to three more years of watching his college career unfold and hopefully one day in the next couple of years going through a similar night with Mitch.

Thanks for letting me share one of the best damn nights I have every had in my entire life.

Wishing each of you the best life has to offer.

Al

white_s2k · 12-13-2008, 12:52 PM

Very cool, thanks for sharing Al

12-13-2008, 12:52 PM

That's awesome Al. He would not be there without parents like you and your wife. You guys are top notch for helping your son make his dreams a reality. I hope I can be a father like you one day.

MikeyC · 12-13-2008, 12:55 PM

Great news Al! Congratulations to you, Al Jr., and your entire family. The sacrifices that everyone made are what allowed this goal to be reached. Playing a sport at this high a level is not something accomplished by everyone.

I look forward to hearing about Jr.'s first college goal.

BigAl_SC · 12-13-2008, 12:58 PM

Very nice. I know you are a proud papa today just as you have been each time a child hits a milestone......

14holestogie · 12-13-2008, 01:22 PM

What a sweet read, Al. His team-mates kind of remind me of the group we have here. Congratulations on a great night and many more.

Old Sailor · 12-13-2008, 01:33 PM

Just doesn't get any better than that, Al!

TripleF · 12-13-2008, 01:33 PM

That's awesome AL. Thanks soooooooooooo much for sharing that with us.

It's the whole experience and what lead up to last night's game that is really, really awesome!!

Props to the entire Clark family!!

acruce · 12-13-2008, 01:20 PM

It sounds as though you and your wife have done a great job raising your kids. That was a great story. Congratulations.

spectrrr · 12-13-2008, 01:39 PM

great story Al, thanks for sharing!

12-13-2008, 01:41 PM

very cool

dunng · 12-13-2008, 01:43 PM

Great experience for your son and family! Thanks for sharing!

BamBam · 12-13-2008, 01:49 PM

Truly Awesome.

You think you know what love is...then you have children and the word is redefined.

Sailkat · 12-13-2008, 01:57 PM

Thanks for sharing, Al.

There is nothing like the joy you feel when watching a dream become a reality!

Look forward to hearing about his first goal.

bobarian · 12-13-2008, 02:00 PM

Great stuff Al! Sounds like it was a very special night for everyone!

Volt · 12-13-2008, 02:05 PM

Sounds like an early Christmas present for the family. I hope he gets his first point soon.

boonedoggle · 12-13-2008, 02:08 PM

That is awesome brother! I know you are proud!

gettysburgfreak · 12-13-2008, 02:29 PM

That is awesome, playing a college sport takes a tramendous amount of effort and is a great accomplishment. I wouldnt have traded my 4 years playing college baseball for anything.

12-13-2008, 02:42 PM

So he gets bombed and he asks why, people think highly of him and he asks why, someone lends a hand once in a while and he asks why.

Seems to me its easy to understand why.

I know Al a little better than some of you and I will tell you that although he was excited he treats every game his boys play with the same passion. I love getting my text updates of how his boys are doing. Its amazing how his pride in them can even come through in a text message. His sacrifices so his boys can continue his passions are something that the rest of us fathers can model ourselves after.

Keep the passion Al, its awesome to see you enjoy what you helped to mold.

That is awesome.

Conch Republican · 12-13-2008, 04:31 PM

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Originally Posted by SilverFox

So he gets bombed and he asks why, people think highly of him and he asks why, someone lends a hand once in a while and he asks why.

Seems to me its easy to understand why.

I know Al a little better than some of you and I will tell you that although he was excited he treats every game his boys play with the same passion. I love getting my text updates of how his boys are doing. Its amazing how his pride in them can even come through in a text message. His sacrifices so his boys can continue his passions are something that the rest of us fathers can model ourselves after.

Keep the passion Al, its awesome to see you enjoy what you helped to mold.

That is awesome.

My thoughts exactly - you just said 'em better!

12-13-2008, 12:49 PM	#1
ahc4353 Guest Posts: n/a	A night I will NEVER forget! As some of you know my sons have played hockey since they were very young. Of course when they are small they want to grow up and be professional hockey players. As the years go by they realize that that's not going to happen so they set their sights on college hockey. Al Jr. made the Penn State hockey team this year and last night he got his first opportunity to dress for a game. So Alina, Mitch and I made the 3.5 hour ride to PSU for his first ever college game. To say I was nervous for him would be an understatement. As I was having my pre-game cigar (as I always do) I thought back over all the years and the sacrifices that not only Jr. has made but the entire family has made to get to this point in his hockey life. Limited vacations, Christmas's with fewer gifts than other kids, late night practice schedules, homework to carry Honor Roll grades and gym workout schedules all had to get done. And all without one complaint. Reflecting on all of that with my cigar I realized no matter what happened in this game it made no difference, he had reached his goal. All the hard work and effort had paid off, he was playing in his first college game. I was just so proud of him for his hard work and dedication over the years no matter what happened no one could take that away from him or me. So, first shift he jumps the boards and bolts to the offensive zone, trips over his own feet and goes right on his a$$! The think the nerves of playing in his first game coupled with playing in front of 1,100+ vs. what he was used to (a handful of parents) got the best of him. Anyway, the fans, team and coach's had a good laugh at his expense. Once he got through that first shift he seemed to relax and play his game. I did not expect him to get much ice time but he played a lot! Towards the end of the game players were forgoing their shifts so he could take their spot as they wanted him to get his first college point. That will have to wait for another day but does that gesture show you what kind of guys are on that team or what! After the game you could not have taken the smile off his face or mine with a crowbar! I gave him a hug, told him how proud I was of him and headed home. Alina and I are looking forward to three more years of watching his college career unfold and hopefully one day in the next couple of years going through a similar night with Mitch. Thanks for letting me share one of the best damn nights I have every had in my entire life. Wishing each of you the best life has to offer. Al

12-13-2008, 12:52 PM	#2
white_s2k The Dude Abides Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Josh Location: Dallas, TX Posts: 1,052 Trading: (20)	Re: A night I will NEVER forget! Very cool, thanks for sharing Al __________________ "An armed society is a polite society. Manners are good when one may have to back up his acts with his life." – Robert A. Heinlein

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Darrell Guest Posts: n/a	Re: A night I will NEVER forget! That's awesome Al. He would not be there without parents like you and your wife. You guys are top notch for helping your son make his dreams a reality. I hope I can be a father like you one day.

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12-13-2008, 02:42 PM	#19
SilverFox Guest Posts: n/a	Re: A night I will NEVER forget! So he gets bombed and he asks why, people think highly of him and he asks why, someone lends a hand once in a while and he asks why. Seems to me its easy to understand why. I know Al a little better than some of you and I will tell you that although he was excited he treats every game his boys play with the same passion. I love getting my text updates of how his boys are doing. Its amazing how his pride in them can even come through in a text message. His sacrifices so his boys can continue his passions are something that the rest of us fathers can model ourselves after. Keep the passion Al, its awesome to see you enjoy what you helped to mold. That is awesome.