A Random Act of Kindness inspired by CA

LasciviousXXX · 05-08-2011, 09:34 AM

CA is my home. Since the beginning of this great community I have been nothing but amazed by the constant generosity and good will shown by the brothers and sisters of Cigar Asylum. Everything from troop support, charity donations, PIF's, to the little everyday kind words and thoughtful bombs. I am always humbled by the kindness we show to each other and the rest of the world. Just being a part of CA has helped me to try and become a better person.

So it is with that thought in mind that I relate to you my small story from this morning. Today is Mother's Day. Unfortunately I had to work today but am still in fantastic spirits. So, in honor of Mother's Day, I decided to buy all of my female co-workers Starbucks this morning in order to say thanks to all the moms, soon-to-be moms, and women in our lives who make life better. So I collected everyone's drink order and headed down a few blocks to the local Starbucks. It wasn't very busy inside but there were a few people there to begin their morning ritual. I was standing at the end of the line with a list of 8 different drink orders in my hand for my co-workers. A woman in scrubs walks up behind me to get in line. I turn and tell her to go ahead and get in front of me since I have a bunch of orders and I'm sure she only needs a drink or two. She thanks me and gets in front of me in line. I strike up a conversation with her and tell her happy Mother's Day. She tells me that she is a nurse at one of the ER's and is just about to begin her shift. Being in public service myself, I sympathize with her having to work weekends, holidays and night shifts. She says that the hardest part of today was leaving her kids at home this morning. As she was leaving they asked her "Do you have to go? It's Mother's Day." I could tell she was feeling a bit conflicted about having to leave her kids home on what could inexplicably be called "her" day, so wanting to brighten this complete stranger's day I told her I would buy her coffee and her breakfast for her. Unexpectedly the woman broke down in tears right there in the line at Starbucks. To say I was surprised was an understatement. After myself and a Starbucks employee had calmed her down and got her seated she explained why she had reacted that way. She told me that the past month had been extremely hard on her because she's going through a rough divorce. She was going through a harsh legal battle over the custody of her children and had stretched her self a bit thin in her life. She stated that financially and emotionally it had been hard on her as she didn't have any family in the area. She had given up on people and had adopted a pessimistic and deafeatist attitude. She said she broke down crying because it was the first act of kindness that anyone had shown her in months. She didn't even realize how much she needed to know that people are inherently good. She told me that this single act had completely turned her day around and that now she was going to go to work energized, with a positive attitude. I'll tell you, it warmed my heart to hear that.

I got a bit more than I bargained for this morning but it cemented the fact that we all need a boost every now and again in our lives. I credit my CA fam for giving me mine when I needed it, and I also credit CA for inspiring me to pay it forward to another. We never know where people are in their lives or what they may be going through. Thank you CA for teaching me this lesson and inspiring me to be a better person.

Happy Mother's Day! Go out and spread some cheer and do something positive for a total stranger today

icehog3 · 05-08-2011, 09:38 AM

That's why I love you, Brother...making a difference. Thanks for sharing, that just made my day as well, Týr.

KidRock · 05-08-2011, 09:41 PM

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Originally Posted by icehog3

That's why I love you, Brother...making a difference. Thanks for sharing, that just made my day as well, Týr.

Thank you.

LasciviousXXX · 05-08-2011, 09:40 AM

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Originally Posted by icehog3

That's why I love you, Brother...making a difference. Thanks for sharing, that just made my day as well, Týr.

I'm learning from the best Tom! You and all the rest of the Asylum dwellers have helped me more than you'll ever know. And the only way for me to ever repay that is to do the same for someone else.

05-08-2011, 09:42 AM

Very nice Tyr.

Just reading the this brightened my day. Thank you.

Remo · 05-08-2011, 09:43 AM

Nice Job Tyr and great story, every once in awhile there is some good out there. Being cynical and jaded myself most of the time (line of work) it does feel good to change someone's outlook for the good every now and then

Eleven · 05-08-2011, 09:47 AM

Wow. Powerful stuff there Tyr!

Thanks for sharing it.

kelmac07 · 05-08-2011, 09:47 AM

AWESOME...thanks for sharing Tyr!!

Whee · 05-08-2011, 09:49 AM

Damn dust in my eye...

Ogre · 05-08-2011, 09:58 AM

Thats what its all about. You helped her and she will in turn do if for someone else. Next thing you know we are all helping each other. Thanks for starting the chain.

Jbailey · 05-08-2011, 10:15 AM

What a great Post Tyr. I always enjoy reading/hearing stories like that.

E.J. · 05-08-2011, 10:35 AM

That just made my day & I'm not even there....

It is amazing how seemingly small acts, can change someones day/week/year/life...

I raise my home-brewed to you Týr

cort · 05-08-2011, 10:49 AM

Very cool Tyr. It's amazing how far a good attitude will go not only for yourself but the way it affects others around you. Props to you brother

massphatness · 05-08-2011, 10:55 AM

Thanks for sharing what it's all about, Tyr. This place, Club Stogie before it, taught me what PIF was all about. And I was surprised to learn it had very little to do with cigars.

LasciviousXXX · 05-08-2011, 11:00 AM

Yes! Thanks Vin, I neglected to mention the Club Stogie family. Club Stogie is where it all began for me but I couldn't be happier that we morphed and grew into Cigar Asylum.

Oh and thank you as well Vin for sharing your turn with me in the MAW/PIF. You exemplify kindness and generosity brother

3SmokesaRound · 05-08-2011, 11:03 AM

Great story indeed! Thanks for sharing

replicant_argent · 05-08-2011, 11:30 AM

You smoothed a bump in her road when she most needed it, Tyr. Well done.

14holestogie · 05-08-2011, 11:37 AM

Great story and an awesome gesture, Tyr.

bobarian · 05-08-2011, 11:38 AM

Tyr, Thanks for sharing such a wonderful and heartwarming story. It really goes to show how we can spread the spirit from this wonderful place.

05-08-2011, 11:44 AM

And now her tears are shared. Thanks for sharing this story along with a little piece of yourself.

05-08-2011, 09:34 AM	#1
LasciviousXXX Team of 11...Always Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Týr Location: New Orleans Posts: 4,579 Trading: (8)	A Random Act of Kindness inspired by CA CA is my home. Since the beginning of this great community I have been nothing but amazed by the constant generosity and good will shown by the brothers and sisters of Cigar Asylum. Everything from troop support, charity donations, PIF's, to the little everyday kind words and thoughtful bombs. I am always humbled by the kindness we show to each other and the rest of the world. Just being a part of CA has helped me to try and become a better person. So it is with that thought in mind that I relate to you my small story from this morning. Today is Mother's Day. Unfortunately I had to work today but am still in fantastic spirits. So, in honor of Mother's Day, I decided to buy all of my female co-workers Starbucks this morning in order to say thanks to all the moms, soon-to-be moms, and women in our lives who make life better. So I collected everyone's drink order and headed down a few blocks to the local Starbucks. It wasn't very busy inside but there were a few people there to begin their morning ritual. I was standing at the end of the line with a list of 8 different drink orders in my hand for my co-workers. A woman in scrubs walks up behind me to get in line. I turn and tell her to go ahead and get in front of me since I have a bunch of orders and I'm sure she only needs a drink or two. She thanks me and gets in front of me in line. I strike up a conversation with her and tell her happy Mother's Day. She tells me that she is a nurse at one of the ER's and is just about to begin her shift. Being in public service myself, I sympathize with her having to work weekends, holidays and night shifts. She says that the hardest part of today was leaving her kids at home this morning. As she was leaving they asked her "Do you have to go? It's Mother's Day." I could tell she was feeling a bit conflicted about having to leave her kids home on what could inexplicably be called "her" day, so wanting to brighten this complete stranger's day I told her I would buy her coffee and her breakfast for her. Unexpectedly the woman broke down in tears right there in the line at Starbucks. To say I was surprised was an understatement. After myself and a Starbucks employee had calmed her down and got her seated she explained why she had reacted that way. She told me that the past month had been extremely hard on her because she's going through a rough divorce. She was going through a harsh legal battle over the custody of her children and had stretched her self a bit thin in her life. She stated that financially and emotionally it had been hard on her as she didn't have any family in the area. She had given up on people and had adopted a pessimistic and deafeatist attitude. She said she broke down crying because it was the first act of kindness that anyone had shown her in months. She didn't even realize how much she needed to know that people are inherently good. She told me that this single act had completely turned her day around and that now she was going to go to work energized, with a positive attitude. I'll tell you, it warmed my heart to hear that. I got a bit more than I bargained for this morning but it cemented the fact that we all need a boost every now and again in our lives. I credit my CA fam for giving me mine when I needed it, and I also credit CA for inspiring me to pay it forward to another. We never know where people are in their lives or what they may be going through. Thank you CA for teaching me this lesson and inspiring me to be a better person. Happy Mother's Day! Go out and spread some cheer and do something positive for a total stranger today

05-08-2011, 09:38 AM	#2
icehog3 Admiral Douchebag Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Tom Location: Clermont, Kentucky Posts: 71,441 Trading: (60)	Re: A Random Act of Kindness inspired by CA That's why I love you, Brother...making a difference. Thanks for sharing, that just made my day as well, Týr. __________________ Thanks Dave, Julian, James, Kelly, Peter, Gerry, Dave, Mo, Frank, Týr and Mr. Mark!

05-08-2011, 09:42 AM	#5
ahc4353 Guest Posts: n/a	Re: A Random Act of Kindness inspired by CA Very nice Tyr. Just reading the this brightened my day. Thank you.

05-08-2011, 09:43 AM	#6
Remo C.I.A Join Date: Feb 2011 First Name: Mike Location: Palm Harbor, Florida Posts: 12,597 Trading: (122)	Re: A Random Act of Kindness inspired by CA Nice Job Tyr and great story, every once in awhile there is some good out there. Being cynical and jaded myself most of the time (line of work) it does feel good to change someone's outlook for the good every now and then __________________

05-08-2011, 09:47 AM	#7
Eleven Solid As The Sun Join Date: Aug 2009 First Name: Scott Location: SW Ohio Posts: 1,859 Trading: (23)	Re: A Random Act of Kindness inspired by CA Wow. Powerful stuff there Tyr! Thanks for sharing it. __________________ CA: putting the 'man' in bromance since 2008! --markem.

05-08-2011, 09:47 AM	#8
kelmac07 Resident Maduro Whore!! Join Date: Apr 2009 First Name: Mac Location: Newport News, VA Posts: 27,322 Trading: (218)	Re: A Random Act of Kindness inspired by CA AWESOME...thanks for sharing Tyr!! __________________ Dom in the MLB thread "I could probably get you to wear a Yankee hat for a Maduro!"

05-08-2011, 09:49 AM	#9
Whee formerly illinoishoosier Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Sean Location: Bishopville, SC Posts: 3,591 Trading: (17)	Re: A Random Act of Kindness inspired by CA Damn dust in my eye... __________________ "Maybe I'm wrong, when they tell me they're right…..naaaaahhhhhh, I'm an asshooooooleeee"--Denis Leary

05-08-2011, 09:58 AM	#10
Ogre **CENSORED** Join Date: Apr 2010 First Name: Larry Location: Central Florida Posts: 12,068 Trading: (46)	Re: A Random Act of Kindness inspired by CA Thats what its all about. You helped her and she will in turn do if for someone else. Next thing you know we are all helping each other. Thanks for starting the chain. __________________

05-08-2011, 10:15 AM	#11
Jbailey Brewcifer Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Dave Location: Madison, WI Posts: 5,212 Trading: (17)	Re: A Random Act of Kindness inspired by CA What a great Post Tyr. I always enjoy reading/hearing stories like that. __________________ "Sent to spy on a Cuban talent show first stop- Havana au go-go." Field Marshall Douche Bag.

05-08-2011, 10:35 AM	#12
E.J. I'm nuts for the place Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 3,218 Trading: (21)	Re: A Random Act of Kindness inspired by CA That just made my day & I'm not even there.... It is amazing how seemingly small acts, can change someones day/week/year/life... I raise my home-brewed to you Týr

05-08-2011, 10:49 AM	#13
cort ◤◢◣◥ Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Gary Posts: 4,478 Trading: (41)	Re: A Random Act of Kindness inspired by CA Very cool Tyr. It's amazing how far a good attitude will go not only for yourself but the way it affects others around you. Props to you brother

05-08-2011, 10:55 AM	#14
massphatness Where's my buffaloooo ... Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Vin Location: MassHolia Posts: 12,690 Trading: (206)	Re: A Random Act of Kindness inspired by CA Thanks for sharing what it's all about, Tyr. This place, Club Stogie before it, taught me what PIF was all about. And I was surprised to learn it had very little to do with cigars. __________________ *Help Support The Navy SEAL Foundation: HERE*

05-08-2011, 11:00 AM	#15
LasciviousXXX Team of 11...Always Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Týr Location: New Orleans Posts: 4,579 Trading: (8)	Re: A Random Act of Kindness inspired by CA Yes! Thanks Vin, I neglected to mention the Club Stogie family. Club Stogie is where it all began for me but I couldn't be happier that we morphed and grew into Cigar Asylum. Oh and thank you as well Vin for sharing your turn with me in the MAW/PIF. You exemplify kindness and generosity brother

05-08-2011, 11:03 AM	#16
3SmokesaRound CCCC Join Date: Apr 2010 First Name: Bill Location: CA Posts: 685 Trading: (48)	Re: A Random Act of Kindness inspired by CA Great story indeed! Thanks for sharing

05-08-2011, 11:30 AM	#17
replicant_argent Gravy Boat Winnah. Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Pete Location: my attorney has advised against giving this information to insane people Posts: 5,326 Trading: (22)	Re: A Random Act of Kindness inspired by CA You smoothed a bump in her road when she most needed it, Tyr. Well done. __________________ www.stogietorch.com Some days call for a stiff Pomade.

05-08-2011, 11:37 AM	#18
14holestogie Serial banter killer Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Tim Location: Clintonville, WI Posts: 4,341 Trading: (52)	Re: A Random Act of Kindness inspired by CA Great story and an awesome gesture, Tyr. __________________ *I loves me a Parti*

05-08-2011, 11:38 AM	#19
bobarian Cranky Habanophile Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Wine Country Posts: 8,869 Trading: (51)	Re: A Random Act of Kindness inspired by CA Tyr, Thanks for sharing such a wonderful and heartwarming story. It really goes to show how we can spread the spirit from this wonderful place.

05-08-2011, 11:44 AM	#20
mariogolbee Guest Posts: n/a	Re: A Random Act of Kindness inspired by CA And now her tears are shared. Thanks for sharing this story along with a little piece of yourself.