Too much stress smokes?

cmitch · 09-15-2011, 09:44 PM

Lately I've been under a tremendous amount of stress. Most work related but what work doesn't stress you out? But this is different. I'm unsettled and cannot relax. Cigars used to allow me to unwind and decompress. Lately, it has not been working. I'm finding that they've been unenjoyable as of late. Nothing tastes good and I end up laying down otherwise good sticks because I just don't dig the flavor anymore. It's obviously me since they all can't be bad. I remember my recently deceased grandmother saying that no food tastes good when you're upset.

My question is, has anyone else found themselves walking away from cigars for awhile because they can't enjoy them anymore? It is really difficult to explain what it is that's going on with my taste.

Drez · 09-15-2011, 09:47 PM

i believe a break from smoking might be good for you. take a little time for yourself and worry about dealing with the stress. remember the cigars arent going anywhere.

best of luck to you brother. i hope everything is ok.

irratebass · 09-15-2011, 10:02 PM

Frank is wise, take a week or two off from smoking and see if that helps you start enjoying your smokes again.

I hope all is well with you bro.

alwayslit · 09-15-2011, 10:06 PM

Taking a few weeks off with help alot. Hope things get better soon.

Ogre · 09-15-2011, 10:08 PM

I hate to say it, but I agree with Frank. Just take a little break and see what happens. Good luck bro.

pnoon · 09-15-2011, 11:30 PM

What you are experiencing is not uncommon or unusual.
Your taste for cigars and the enjoyment will return.

Emjaysmash · 09-15-2011, 11:34 PM

+1 to everything said above.

Instead of a cigar, try relaxing with a comfy chair, your favorite relaxing music and a glass of wine/scotch/beer whatever. Take a moment to just relax and enjoy the subtly of the drink, the nuances of the music.

09-15-2011, 11:35 PM

I have to agree with all of the above. Take a short break from the cigars, And once you source of stress dies down come back to them. You can be surprised at how much difference a week or two can make. I hope your situation gets better Mitch

Zeuceone · 09-16-2011, 12:13 AM

I think I'm having the same problem. Work has been stressing me out a lot lately. I only smoke on the weekend and that's usually 2-3 times. I will smoke about 2/3 of a stick and it will start tasting bad to me. I have also noticed that I'm smoking a bit faster now and could possibly add to the problem.

icehog3 · 09-16-2011, 12:17 AM

Sometimes a break is just what the doctor ordered. Stay away until you find yourself craving a cigar...not for the habit, or the nicotine, or what you hope it will bring...but craving one for the flavor.

SvilleKid · 09-16-2011, 12:33 AM

Clayton, Stress is a definite problem in enjoyment activities! No doubt about it! Hopefully your upcoming job interview will result in a change that will reduce or eliminate those stresses! I made myself slow down on the number I smoke, and I also gave up even lighting a cigar if I know I will not have the time and environment to relax while I'm smoking. As a result, I probably smoke at least half as much as I used to, but I do enjoy it much more when I do get to smoke a stick! Your current situation may be such that you just cannot "un-stress". If so, then taking a few weeks off from smoking will keep you from wasting a lot of your cigars!

For some reason, the movie scene in Trial and Error where Jeff Daniels and Charlize Theron are shooting old commodes comes to mind as a possible stress relief method

. I've got the shotgun and shells, if you can find the toilets to blast!

BigCat · 09-16-2011, 10:23 AM

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Originally Posted by icehog3

Sometimes a break is just what the doctor ordered. Stay away until you find yourself craving a cigar...not for the habit, or the nicotine, or what you hope it will bring...but craving one for the flavor.

Agreed. Don't have a cigar to relieve stress - have one because you want to have a cigar. You'll enjoy it then. Hang in there.

Tbagley · 09-16-2011, 10:16 AM

Besides putting the cigars away for a while, you might want to try adding an exercise program to your activities or changing the up the one you are alreadying doing.

I find that exercise really helps cut into my stress levels.

N2 GOLD · 09-16-2011, 11:35 AM

I agree with everyone take some time off. Clear your mind & palate that way you can start fresh again...

jjirons69 · 09-16-2011, 01:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cmitch

I remember my recently deceased grandmother saying that no food tastes good when you're upset.

True that for me, too. Some people gorge when upset/stressed, I do the opposite. How everything pans out.

shilala · 09-16-2011, 01:29 PM

When I'm not enjoying smoking, or it's too much trouble to find time or a place to smoke, I just don't smoke. It can sometimes be months. Nobody has ever told me there was a problem with that.
Despite not smoking during those times, I still enjoy the hobby. I keep up on the cigars, stay in touch with the guys here, and wait for an opportunity where I might enjoy a smoke.
I think about it like other things I enjoy doing. I haven't been golfing but one time this year. It doesn't mean I don't like golfing anymore. If I don't feel like going when the next opportunity arises, it still doesn't mean I don't like it anymore or I won't return to it.
I'm not very "black or white" about anything. I try to leave all the fun stuff wide open in case I want to enjoy it later. I've watched lots of guys join the brotherhood and one day say "gee, I haven't smoked in two weeks, I don't like it anymore", then they sell all their stuff, and regret it just months later. I try not to be that impulsive about ruling out anything that may bring joy to short life.

guado · 09-16-2011, 01:58 PM

I've been in your shoes before. My cigar time is my relaxation time. I smoke when I can sit back, feel the breeze, have a drink if wanted etc.

Lately I have been soooooo busy that I just havent had time to relax and it sux. I didn't have a cigar for almost 3 weeks. Only due to the fact that I wont smoke unless I can relax. The cigar only aids to the relaxation whereas your body has to make the relaxation happen.

Don't sweat. When your body allows you to relax as a whole then grab a cigar and see how it smokes. Even if you have to take some time off. Trust me, it wasn't easy to avoid cigars but I did it for the reasons you listed above. You will appreciate it more when you do.

Steve · 09-16-2011, 02:12 PM

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cmitch · 09-16-2011, 03:38 PM

I may have to walk away from more than just cigars. I just had a Dr. Pepper today, my favorite soda and it even tasted BITTER. My nerves are definitely shot and chewing on the company jock strap doesn't help.

Thanks for the advice. I'll lay off until Tuesday (steak night with the guys) and then just go home instead of the cigar shop. My wife has an event show for her catering and wedding business this weekend. Maybe when we get this behind us and I get my interview finalized and completed, things will start looking up. Which reminds me. I must run brochures real quick on the digital color machine.

Newbie_nick · 09-17-2011, 04:07 PM

I wish you the best with whatever is stressing you right now. Stress can do weird things to you, mentally and physically, and you just need to get past this period. Just like everybody said, cigar smoking should be relaxing, and if you're not finding it there, you might just want to back away for a while. Cigars and all of us CA nuts will be here when you return.

Best of luck to you!

09-15-2011, 09:44 PM	#1
cmitch Heads up get down Join Date: Oct 2010 First Name: Clayton Location: NW Alabama by the river Posts: 2,720 Trading: (25)	Too much stress smokes? Lately I've been under a tremendous amount of stress. Most work related but what work doesn't stress you out? But this is different. I'm unsettled and cannot relax. Cigars used to allow me to unwind and decompress. Lately, it has not been working. I'm finding that they've been unenjoyable as of late. Nothing tastes good and I end up laying down otherwise good sticks because I just don't dig the flavor anymore. It's obviously me since they all can't be bad. I remember my recently deceased grandmother saying that no food tastes good when you're upset. My question is, has anyone else found themselves walking away from cigars for awhile because they can't enjoy them anymore? It is really difficult to explain what it is that's going on with my taste. __________________ No matter what one's status is in society, cigars are the great equalizer where the affluent and common share a love for the leaf. - Me.

09-15-2011, 09:47 PM	#2
Drez The Warden Join Date: Jan 2010 First Name: Frank Location: Miami, FL Posts: 3,768 Trading: (35)	Re: Too much stress smokes? i believe a break from smoking might be good for you. take a little time for yourself and worry about dealing with the stress. remember the cigars arent going anywhere. best of luck to you brother. i hope everything is ok. __________________ They aren't going to multiply....burn that b!tch!

09-15-2011, 10:02 PM	#3
irratebass EMPEROR TOMPKINS Join Date: Aug 2011 First Name: Mickey Location: Mooresville, Indiana Posts: 8,313 Trading: (48)	Re: Too much stress smokes? Frank is wise, take a week or two off from smoking and see if that helps you start enjoying your smokes again. I hope all is well with you bro. __________________

09-15-2011, 10:06 PM	#4
alwayslit Welcome to the madness Join Date: Jul 2009 First Name: Jim Location: DC/Tampa Posts: 487 Trading: (14)	Re: Too much stress smokes? Taking a few weeks off with help alot. Hope things get better soon.

09-15-2011, 10:08 PM	#5
Ogre **CENSORED** Join Date: Apr 2010 First Name: Larry Location: Central Florida Posts: 12,068 Trading: (46)	Re: Too much stress smokes? I hate to say it, but I agree with Frank. Just take a little break and see what happens. Good luck bro. __________________

09-15-2011, 11:30 PM	#6
pnoon YNWA Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Peter Location: San Diego Posts: 29,919 Trading: (20)	Re: Too much stress smokes? What you are experiencing is not uncommon or unusual. Your taste for cigars and the enjoyment will return. __________________ Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are. -John Wooden

09-15-2011, 11:34 PM	#7
Emjaysmash The Hebrew Hammer Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: M.J. Location: Milwaukee, WI Posts: 7,025 Trading: (76)	Re: Too much stress smokes? +1 to everything said above. Instead of a cigar, try relaxing with a comfy chair, your favorite relaxing music and a glass of wine/scotch/beer whatever. Take a moment to just relax and enjoy the subtly of the drink, the nuances of the music. __________________

09-15-2011, 11:35 PM	#8
Sherlockholms Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Too much stress smokes? I have to agree with all of the above. Take a short break from the cigars, And once you source of stress dies down come back to them. You can be surprised at how much difference a week or two can make. I hope your situation gets better Mitch

09-16-2011, 12:13 AM	#9
Zeuceone You're next Join Date: Dec 2010 First Name: G Location: SoCal Posts: 1,737 Trading: (16)	Re: Too much stress smokes? I think I'm having the same problem. Work has been stressing me out a lot lately. I only smoke on the weekend and that's usually 2-3 times. I will smoke about 2/3 of a stick and it will start tasting bad to me. I have also noticed that I'm smoking a bit faster now and could possibly add to the problem.

09-16-2011, 12:17 AM	#10
icehog3 Admiral Douchebag Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Tom Location: Clermont, Kentucky Posts: 71,293 Trading: (60)	Re: Too much stress smokes? Sometimes a break is just what the doctor ordered. Stay away until you find yourself craving a cigar...not for the habit, or the nicotine, or what you hope it will bring...but craving one for the flavor. __________________ Thanks Dave, Julian, James, Kelly, Peter, Gerry, Dave, Mo, Frank, Týr and Mr. Mark!

09-16-2011, 12:33 AM	#11
SvilleKid Yes I am a Pirate Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: 33°46′08″N 86°28′16″W / 33.76895°N 86.471037°W Posts: 2,776 Trading: (52)	Re: Too much stress smokes? Clayton, Stress is a definite problem in enjoyment activities! No doubt about it! Hopefully your upcoming job interview will result in a change that will reduce or eliminate those stresses! I made myself slow down on the number I smoke, and I also gave up even lighting a cigar if I know I will not have the time and environment to relax while I'm smoking. As a result, I probably smoke at least half as much as I used to, but I do enjoy it much more when I do get to smoke a stick! Your current situation may be such that you just cannot "un-stress". If so, then taking a few weeks off from smoking will keep you from wasting a lot of your cigars! For some reason, the movie scene in Trial and Error where Jeff Daniels and Charlize Theron are shooting old commodes comes to mind as a possible stress relief method. I've got the shotgun and shells, if you can find the toilets to blast! __________________ Ceilin' fan it stirs the air, Cigar smoke does swirl. The fragrance on the pillow case, and he thinks about the girl. Thanks, JB, 1975.

09-16-2011, 10:16 AM	#13
Tbagley Still Watching My Back Join Date: Jun 2011 First Name: Tom Location: South FL Posts: 116 Trading: (0)	Re: Too much stress smokes? Besides putting the cigars away for a while, you might want to try adding an exercise program to your activities or changing the up the one you are alreadying doing. I find that exercise really helps cut into my stress levels.

09-16-2011, 11:35 AM	#14
N2 GOLD MIND OVER MATTER... Join Date: Feb 2011 First Name: RICO Location: So. CAL 33° 44' 44" N / 117° 52' 0" W Posts: 2,330 Trading: (1)	Re: Too much stress smokes? I agree with everyone take some time off. Clear your mind & palate that way you can start fresh again... __________________ When I want your opinion, I'll give it to ya.

09-16-2011, 01:29 PM	#16
shilala Dear Lord, Thank You. Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Scott Posts: 13,721 Trading: (252)	Re: Too much stress smokes? When I'm not enjoying smoking, or it's too much trouble to find time or a place to smoke, I just don't smoke. It can sometimes be months. Nobody has ever told me there was a problem with that. Despite not smoking during those times, I still enjoy the hobby. I keep up on the cigars, stay in touch with the guys here, and wait for an opportunity where I might enjoy a smoke. I think about it like other things I enjoy doing. I haven't been golfing but one time this year. It doesn't mean I don't like golfing anymore. If I don't feel like going when the next opportunity arises, it still doesn't mean I don't like it anymore or I won't return to it. I'm not very "black or white" about anything. I try to leave all the fun stuff wide open in case I want to enjoy it later. I've watched lots of guys join the brotherhood and one day say "gee, I haven't smoked in two weeks, I don't like it anymore", then they sell all their stuff, and regret it just months later. I try not to be that impulsive about ruling out anything that may bring joy to short life. __________________

09-16-2011, 01:58 PM	#17
guado OCD cigar hoarder Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Tampa Posts: 379 Trading: (4)	Re: Too much stress smokes? I've been in your shoes before. My cigar time is my relaxation time. I smoke when I can sit back, feel the breeze, have a drink if wanted etc. Lately I have been soooooo busy that I just havent had time to relax and it sux. I didn't have a cigar for almost 3 weeks. Only due to the fact that I wont smoke unless I can relax. The cigar only aids to the relaxation whereas your body has to make the relaxation happen. Don't sweat. When your body allows you to relax as a whole then grab a cigar and see how it smokes. Even if you have to take some time off. Trust me, it wasn't easy to avoid cigars but I did it for the reasons you listed above. You will appreciate it more when you do. __________________

09-16-2011, 02:12 PM	#18
Steve Dad Jokester Supreme Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Steve Location: 17 R 435648 3354895 Posts: 7,715 Trading: (6)	Re: Too much stress smokes? / \ \|\| What they've said... __________________ ...So don't sit upon the shoreline and say you're satisfied, Choose to chance the rapids and dare to dance that tide

09-16-2011, 03:38 PM	#19
cmitch Heads up get down Join Date: Oct 2010 First Name: Clayton Location: NW Alabama by the river Posts: 2,720 Trading: (25)	Re: Too much stress smokes? I may have to walk away from more than just cigars. I just had a Dr. Pepper today, my favorite soda and it even tasted BITTER. My nerves are definitely shot and chewing on the company jock strap doesn't help. Thanks for the advice. I'll lay off until Tuesday (steak night with the guys) and then just go home instead of the cigar shop. My wife has an event show for her catering and wedding business this weekend. Maybe when we get this behind us and I get my interview finalized and completed, things will start looking up. Which reminds me. I must run brochures real quick on the digital color machine. __________________ No matter what one's status is in society, cigars are the great equalizer where the affluent and common share a love for the leaf. - Me.

09-17-2011, 04:07 PM	#20
Newbie_nick Adjusting to the Life Join Date: Jul 2011 First Name: Nick Location: Findlay, OH Posts: 418 Trading: (13)	Re: Too much stress smokes? I wish you the best with whatever is stressing you right now. Stress can do weird things to you, mentally and physically, and you just need to get past this period. Just like everybody said, cigar smoking should be relaxing, and if you're not finding it there, you might just want to back away for a while. Cigars and all of us CA nuts will be here when you return. Best of luck to you!