Self-consumed &$*@&

AdamJoshua · 06-06-2015, 06:31 PM

Phrasing.

On a serious note, I just don't understand some people.

I decided to hit the trail again this afternoon, just going to do the 3+ mile version and I get about 3/4 of the way down and there is a little kid sitting on the side of the trail by his bike BAWLING his eyes out, people walk past him don't stop nothing. So i go up and he had to be 7 or 8 and I asked him what was the matter, looking at his bike the chain was off... so I figured that was it, he kind of cried out that his mom left him there, she was jogging and he was riding his bike and his chain came off and she kept going and he yelled to her and she kept going ....

So I passed a woman a couple hundred yards before that and figured it was her, so I flipped over his bike and showed him how to get his chain back on, now I have no idea what age we learned this but I thought ever kid could do it, anyway showed him how to put the chain on the small spoke then a little bit started on the big one, turn the pedals and BAM! chain is back on. So we got his chain on and I walked with him while he rode till we saw his mother ahead and he took off riding after her.

When I got to her she was talking to her son and I tied to be amusing and said something about "special delivery for you!", to which she gave me a really f'ing dirty look and that's when I was done being nice, granted her son was there so I wasn't going to really tell her what I thought of her and her lack of parenting skills or instincts. I explained that she probably should realize when her son isn't with her, or maybe hear him yelling "mom stop" over and over, I suppose since she had headphones on it was more important to hear her music than be paying attention to her child.

At this point she started to tell me to me to mind my own business and so I informed her that since I stopped and helped her son and then walked with him, quite out of my way, to find her, that it was clearly my business and while I didn't expect a thank you out of her that she "clearly wasn't the type to thank me anyway" (my exact words) I did tell her she should apologize to her son for leaving him all alone and scared in the middle of the trail. without waiting for a reply, I told her she should probably google Adam Walsh, I put my head phones in, gave him a thumbs up and walked away. Some people just suck.

I was hiding from my mom in a grocery store when I was young and thought it was funny she couldn't find me, she tanned my ass good for that one, never again did I pull any stupid **** like that. I just have no idea how callous this woman could be and how little emotion she showed over her son. Who knows maybe she's a great mom and it just wasn't her day, but the fact that she was the one that turned this confrontational when I was just more than happy that we found his mom and he was ok.. well that's the part that aggravates me.

< rant />

MarkinAZ · 06-06-2015, 06:51 PM

I don't know Adam. Maybe you should of just left him there and one of those big kitty cats would of dragged him into the bushes. That sure would've showed that mother

You did a great job Adam by getting involved. Its tough seeing the numerous imbeciles and morons who walk-by situations such as what you experienced this afternoon. More people need to step-up to the plate and get involved in life issues. Fortunately for that little one, you stopped and helped.

Good job

AdamJoshua · 06-06-2015, 06:54 PM

The thing is, it's a pretty long trail through the brush and there are a lot of long stretches where anything could happen and no one would know, how did none of these other people stop? I suppose another issue is these days no one wants to get involved.

Ogre · 06-06-2015, 06:55 PM

That's what society has turned into. Thanks for stoping and helping.

The Poet · 06-06-2015, 07:07 PM

These days if you get involved, the next you know you're in jail for trying to help. Times have changed, and helpful neighbors often need good lawyers.

Good for you, Adam, and glad you dodged the sin of samaritanism bullet.

Weelok · 06-06-2015, 08:32 PM

Some people just suck. Fortunately for the young boy you were there to help. Hopefully he'll find others like you as he grows up as it appears he'll need them.

06-06-2015, 08:52 PM

Good job brother - if nothing else, you taught the little dude how to fix a loose bike chain. Next time, he will know what to do! Kids need to know that kind of stuff.

Remo · 06-06-2015, 08:56 PM

Good job Ads..

rwiiames · 06-06-2015, 08:58 PM

I know you did the right thing, but I'm afraid to talk to little kids in a truck stop. Never know who is going to make some wild accusations.

AdamJoshua · 06-06-2015, 09:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rwiiames

I know you did the right thing, but I'm afraid to talk to little kids in a truck stop. Never know who is going to make some wild accusations.

Well if it was something like that and the kid wasn't scared and crying I wouldn't have just for that reason, but it was pretty clear something was definitely wrong.

...and yes kids need to know how to put chains back on bikes.

icehog3 · 06-06-2015, 09:51 PM

You're good peeps, Adam. **** her.

14holestogie · 06-07-2015, 06:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by icehog3

You're good peeps, Adam. **** her.

this.

Porch Dweller · 06-06-2015, 11:19 PM

Doing the right thing is never wrong.

icehog3 · 06-06-2015, 11:43 PM

If lovin' you is wrong, I don't wanna be right.

Subvet642 · 06-07-2015, 12:12 AM

If you had called 911 on your cell phone when you saw the child, she would have learned her lesson when the police returned him to her. Sadly, that is the safest legal course of action. As an added bonus, if she got mouthy with the police...

It's a shame that neighborliness has become a social offense.

longknocker · 06-07-2015, 04:45 AM

Good Job, Adam!

I Think You Handled It Perfectly, Brother, & Maybe The Mom Realized She Screwed Up Royally, But Was Afraid To Admit It?

dijit · 06-07-2015, 06:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by longknocker

Good Job, Adam!

I Think You Handled It Perfectly, Brother, & Maybe The Mom Realized She Screwed Up Royally, But Was Afraid To Admit It?

Having experienced many parents like this myself, IMHO you did exactly right. Unfortunately society today has created parents that even when they are wrong are taught to be aggressive and defend themselves when someone tell them they screwed up even when doing so in a polite manner in front of their children. I think it has to do with embarrassment and butthurt in public. Good job brother.

AdamJoshua · 06-07-2015, 01:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dijit

Having experienced many parents like this myself, IMHO you did exactly right. Unfortunately society today has created parents that even when they are wrong are taught to be aggressive and defend themselves when someone tell them they screwed up even when doing so in a polite manner in front of their children. I think it has to do with embarrassment and butthurt in public. Good job brother.

This is why I basically said I don't expect a thank you but you owe your son an apology (and some a prize .. ice cream..game.. something right) and just left, hopefully she said she was sorry when I wasn't there so she wasn't embarrassed by her cluster**** and she will be more aware in the future, it really has nothing to do with what I did, I like to think it's what anyone would do even though I was obviously proved wrong but you still like to think it. It was more about, in that instance, what a shitty parent she was.

area51 · 06-07-2015, 01:05 PM

Good on you for keeping your cool the way you did.

mosesbotbol · 06-07-2015, 06:37 PM

Carry a liability form on your phone that anyone you offer to help must sign first... LOL

06-06-2015, 06:31 PM	#1
AdamJoshua Article 4 Free Inhabitant Join Date: Jan 2013 First Name: The Other Adam Location: Satellite Beach Posts: 14,787 Trading: (40)	*Self-consumed &$@& Phrasing. On a serious note, I just don't understand some people. I decided to hit the trail again this afternoon, just going to do the 3+ mile version and I get about 3/4 of the way down and there is a little kid sitting on the side of the trail by his bike BAWLING his eyes out, people walk past him don't stop nothing. So i go up and he had to be 7 or 8 and I asked him what was the matter, looking at his bike the chain was off... so I figured that was it, he kind of cried out that his mom left him there, she was jogging and he was riding his bike and his chain came off and she kept going and he yelled to her and she kept going .... So I passed a woman a couple hundred yards before that and figured it was her, so I flipped over his bike and showed him how to get his chain back on, now I have no idea what age we learned this but I thought ever kid could do it, anyway showed him how to put the chain on the small spoke then a little bit started on the big one, turn the pedals and BAM! chain is back on. So we got his chain on and I walked with him while he rode till we saw his mother ahead and he took off riding after her. When I got to her she was talking to her son and I tied to be amusing and said something about "special delivery for you!", to which she gave me a really f'ing dirty look and that's when I was done being nice, granted her son was there so I wasn't going to really tell her what I thought of her and her lack of parenting skills or instincts. I explained that she probably should realize when her son isn't with her, or maybe hear him yelling "mom stop" over and over, I suppose since she had headphones on it was more important to hear her music than be paying attention to her child. At this point she started to tell me to me to mind my own business and so I informed her that since I stopped and helped her son and then walked with him, quite out of my way, to find her, that it was clearly my business and while I didn't expect a thank you out of her that she "clearly wasn't the type to thank me anyway" (my exact words) I did tell her she should apologize to her son for leaving him all alone and scared in the middle of the trail. without waiting for a reply, I told her she should probably google Adam Walsh, I put my head phones in, gave him a thumbs up and walked away. Some people just suck. I was hiding from my mom in a grocery store when I was young and thought it was funny she couldn't find me, she tanned my ass good for that one, never again did I pull any stupid ** like that. I just have no idea how callous this woman could be and how little emotion she showed over her son. Who knows maybe she's a great mom and it just wasn't her day, but the fact that she was the one that turned this confrontational when I was just more than happy that we found his mom and he was ok.. well that's the part that aggravates me. < rant />

06-06-2015, 06:51 PM	#2
MarkinAZ Formerly MarkinOR Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Mark Location: Sun City West, AZ Posts: 6,221 Trading: (40)	*Re: Self-consumed &$@& I don't know Adam. Maybe you should of just left him there and one of those big kitty cats would of dragged him into the bushes. That sure would've showed that mother You did a great job Adam by getting involved. Its tough seeing the numerous imbeciles and morons who walk-by situations such as what you experienced this afternoon. More people need to step-up to the plate and get involved in life issues. Fortunately for that little one, you stopped and helped. Good job __________________ "Don't worry, God will work out His plan for your life..." Psalm 138 8**

06-06-2015, 06:54 PM	#3
AdamJoshua Article 4 Free Inhabitant Join Date: Jan 2013 First Name: The Other Adam Location: Satellite Beach Posts: 14,787 Trading: (40)	*Re: Self-consumed &$@&** The thing is, it's a pretty long trail through the brush and there are a lot of long stretches where anything could happen and no one would know, how did none of these other people stop? I suppose another issue is these days no one wants to get involved.

06-06-2015, 06:55 PM	#4
Ogre **CENSORED** Join Date: Apr 2010 First Name: Larry Location: Central Florida Posts: 12,068 Trading: (46)	*Re: Self-consumed &$@&** That's what society has turned into. Thanks for stoping and helping. __________________

06-06-2015, 07:07 PM	#5
The Poet Il megglior fabbro Join Date: Jun 2009 First Name: Thomas Location: Hickory, NC Posts: 8,420 Trading: (2)	*Re: Self-consumed &$@&** These days if you get involved, the next you know you're in jail for trying to help. Times have changed, and helpful neighbors often need good lawyers. Good for you, Adam, and glad you dodged the sin of samaritanism bullet. __________________ Ninety percent of everything is crap - Theodore Sturgeon.

06-06-2015, 08:32 PM	#6
Weelok I'm nuts for the place Join Date: Jul 2011 First Name: Dave Location: Reno, NV Posts: 4,086 Trading: (21)	*Re: Self-consumed &$@&** Some people just suck. Fortunately for the young boy you were there to help. Hopefully he'll find others like you as he grows up as it appears he'll need them.

06-06-2015, 08:52 PM	#7
badbriar Guest Posts: n/a	*Re: Self-consumed &$@&** Good job brother - if nothing else, you taught the little dude how to fix a loose bike chain. Next time, he will know what to do! Kids need to know that kind of stuff.

06-06-2015, 08:56 PM	#8
Remo C.I.A Join Date: Feb 2011 First Name: Mike Location: Palm Harbor, Florida Posts: 12,597 Trading: (122)	*Re: Self-consumed &$@&** Good job Ads.. __________________

06-06-2015, 08:58 PM	#9
rwiiames Still Watching My Back Join Date: Mar 2015 First Name: Wes Location: Cincinnati, OH Posts: 67 Trading: (0)	*Re: Self-consumed &$@&** I know you did the right thing, but I'm afraid to talk to little kids in a truck stop. Never know who is going to make some wild accusations. __________________ Who is John Galt?

06-06-2015, 09:51 PM	#11
icehog3 Admiral Douchebag Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Tom Location: Clermont, Kentucky Posts: 71,284 Trading: (60)	*Re: Self-consumed &$@& You're good peeps, Adam. ** her. __________________ Thanks Dave, Julian, James, Kelly, Peter, Gerry, Dave, Mo, Frank, Týr and Mr. Mark!

06-06-2015, 11:19 PM	#13
Porch Dweller Life is for living Join Date: Oct 2012 First Name: James Location: Mississippi Gulf Coast Posts: 8,392 Trading: (24)	*Re: Self-consumed &$@&** Doing the right thing is never wrong. __________________ A 1911 in the hand is faster than 911 on the phone

06-06-2015, 11:43 PM	#14
icehog3 Admiral Douchebag Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Tom Location: Clermont, Kentucky Posts: 71,284 Trading: (60)	*Re: Self-consumed &$@&** If lovin' you is wrong, I don't wanna be right. __________________ Thanks Dave, Julian, James, Kelly, Peter, Gerry, Dave, Mo, Frank, Týr and Mr. Mark!

06-07-2015, 12:12 AM	#15
Subvet642 Bilge Rat Join Date: Nov 2009 First Name: Darren Location: Torpedo Room Bilge Posts: 2,997 Trading: (13)	*Re: Self-consumed &$@& If you had called 911 on your cell phone when you saw the child, she would have learned her lesson when the police returned him to her. Sadly, that is the safest legal course of action. As an added bonus, if she got mouthy with the police... It's a shame that neighborliness has become a social offense. __________________ "Man's mind is his basic tool of survival. Life is given to him, survival is not." -John Galt**

06-07-2015, 04:45 AM	#16
longknocker Postwhore Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Greg Location: Mobile, Alabama Posts: 11,162 Trading: (82)	*Re: Self-consumed &$@&** Good Job, Adam! I Think You Handled It Perfectly, Brother, & Maybe The Mom Realized She Screwed Up Royally, But Was Afraid To Admit It?

06-07-2015, 01:05 PM	#19
area51 Blowing Smoke Rings Join Date: Sep 2010 First Name: Ken Location: Tejas Posts: 1,259 Trading: (3)	*Re: Self-consumed &$@&** Good on you for keeping your cool the way you did. __________________

06-07-2015, 06:37 PM	#20
mosesbotbol That's a Corgi Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Moses Location: Boston Posts: 6,171 Trading: (6)	*Re: Self-consumed &$@&** Carry a liability form on your phone that anyone you offer to help must sign first... LOL __________________ Port Wine & Claret \| British Cars \| Welsh Corgi's