A plea for some help.

RevSmoke · 12-09-2009, 08:47 PM

Vin posted a quick note about how his ex-wife was treated by her new boyfriend. As a stand-up guy, he asked for prayers for her and the situation.

I know Vin has helped out other in the past. And this isn't even for Vin, it's for his ex. So, read on.

Here's his original post on the situation, please take a moment to read it. http://www.cigarasylum.com/vb/showpo...74&postcount=1

I asked if there was anything that could be done to help.

He didn't ask for help. He said that he's doing what he can, but he "cannot cover everything." However, he also said that since it does affect his children, he wasn't going to turn an offer away (or something like that). He did state, "I just want to reiterate though that no one is going hungry. They have a roof over their heads and a vehicle to drive. It's just a crummy situation to deal with during what should should be a time of joy. I don't want to make it into a bigger deal than it is."

OK, so it isn't an emergency. This is Christmas though, and so I asked, "If someone wants to lend some financial assistance, how can we help?"

Please read the original post to see what kind of stuff the ex's boyfriend left with. It appears that He didn't take the kid's stuff - he took appliances and furniture. Some of the small appliances have been replaced, but there is a need for furniture and the larger appliances. I know none of us can do that, but maybe with a few donations we can help offset some of the expenses. Part of a note to me from Vin stated, "A lot of what was taken was silly, stupid stuff: a coffee maker, a vegetable steamer, a set of cutlery, etc. I had my ex put together a Target shopping list, and I took care of the immediate necessities. What I know she's going to have a hard time with is replacing furniture and appliances. What I know will never be lacking is anything for the kids as their grandparents will fill those needs well."

I asked how we could get money to him. Vin has suggested the following as a way to funds to him to get to Christine.

He stated the following: It doesn't really matter to me how people send. Check, PP -- it's all the same to me. I think my preferance would be to receive it here and then send it on to her so that I can thank people.

Checks can be made out to Christine Stolo and sent to Vin (PM me and I will give you his address so we don't publically post it here).

PP donations can go to vstolo@hotmail.com

I will be personally sending a check to Christine via Vin. If you can assist in this matter, I am sure Christine would appreciate it.

God's blessings to you all for a great Christmas.

Peace of the Lord be with you all.

kgoings · 12-09-2009, 08:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RevSmoke

Vin posted a quick note about how his ex-wife was treated by her new boyfriend. As a stand-up guy, he asked for prayers for her and the situation.

I know Vin has helped out other in the past. And this isn't even for Vin, it's for his ex. So, read on.

Here's his original post on the situation, please take a moment to read it. http://www.cigarasylum.com/vb/showpo...74&postcount=1

I asked if there was anything that could be done to help.

He didn't ask for help. He said that he's doing what he can, but he "cannot cover everything." However, he also said that since it does affect his children, he wasn't going to turn an offer away (or something like that). He did state, "I just want to reiterate though that no one is going hungry. They have a roof over their heads and a vehicle to drive. It's just a crummy situation to deal with during what should should be a time of joy. I don't want to make it into a bigger deal than it is."

OK, so it isn't an emergency. This is Christmas though, and so I asked, "If someone wants to lend some financial assistance, how can we help?"

Please read the original post to see what kind of stuff the ex's boyfriend left with. It appears that He didn't take the kid's stuff - he took appliances and furniture. Some of the small appliances have been replaced, but there is a need for furniture and the larger appliances. I know none of us can do that, but maybe with a few donations we can help offset some of the expenses. Part of a note to me from Vin stated, "A lot of what was taken was silly, stupid stuff: a coffee maker, a vegetable steamer, a set of cutlery, etc. I had my ex put together a Target shopping list, and I took care of the immediate necessities. What I know she's going to have a hard time with is replacing furniture and appliances. What I know will never be lacking is anything for the kids as their grandparents will fill those needs well."

I asked how we could get money to him. Vin has suggested the following as a way to funds to him to get to Christine.

He stated the following: It doesn't really matter to me how people send. Check, PP -- it's all the same to me. I think my preferance would be to receive it here and then send it on to her so that I can thank people.

Checks can be made out to Christine Stolo and sent to Vin (PM me and I will give you his address so we don't publically post it here).

PP donations can go to vstolo@hotmail.com

I will be personally sending a check to Christine via Vin. If you can assist in this matter, I am sure Christine would appreciate it.

God's blessings to you all for a great Christmas.

Peace of the Lord be with you all.

I was thinking the same thing. Consider money on the way

SmokeyJoe · 12-09-2009, 08:59 PM

Pray-palled some funds. Thanks, Todd.

massphatness · 12-09-2009, 09:05 PM

Just wow. I'm a little choked up. From the bottom of my heart, thank you.

SmokeyJoe · 12-09-2009, 09:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by massphatness

Just wow. I'm a little choked up. From the bottom of my heart, thank you.

Hey... it's Cigar Asylum, brother. Its what we do.

Praying things turn around for Christine, Vin. You are a good man.

Doctorossi · 12-09-2009, 09:40 PM

PP sent. Thank you so much for doing this, Rev. Here's to a speedy recovery!

bobarian · 12-09-2009, 10:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SmokeyJoe

Hey... it's Cigar Asylum, brother. Its what we do.

Praying things turn around for Christine, Vin. You are a good man.

SmokeyJoe · 12-09-2009, 09:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RevSmoke

Vin posted a quick note about how his ex-wife was treated by her new boyfriend. As a stand-up guy, he asked for prayers for her and the situation.

I know Vin has helped out other in the past. And this isn't even for Vin, it's for his ex. So, read on.

Here's his original post on the situation, please take a moment to read it. http://www.cigarasylum.com/vb/showpo...74&postcount=1

I asked if there was anything that could be done to help.

He didn't ask for help. He said that he's doing what he can, but he "cannot cover everything." However, he also said that since it does affect his children, he wasn't going to turn an offer away (or something like that). He did state, "I just want to reiterate though that no one is going hungry. They have a roof over their heads and a vehicle to drive. It's just a crummy situation to deal with during what should should be a time of joy. I don't want to make it into a bigger deal than it is."

OK, so it isn't an emergency. This is Christmas though, and so I asked, "If someone wants to lend some financial assistance, how can we help?"

Please read the original post to see what kind of stuff the ex's boyfriend left with. It appears that He didn't take the kid's stuff - he took appliances and furniture. Some of the small appliances have been replaced, but there is a need for furniture and the larger appliances. I know none of us can do that, but maybe with a few donations we can help offset some of the expenses. Part of a note to me from Vin stated, "A lot of what was taken was silly, stupid stuff: a coffee maker, a vegetable steamer, a set of cutlery, etc. I had my ex put together a Target shopping list, and I took care of the immediate necessities. What I know she's going to have a hard time with is replacing furniture and appliances. What I know will never be lacking is anything for the kids as their grandparents will fill those needs well."

I asked how we could get money to him. Vin has suggested the following as a way to funds to him to get to Christine.

He stated the following: It doesn't really matter to me how people send. Check, PP -- it's all the same to me. I think my preferance would be to receive it here and then send it on to her so that I can thank people.

Checks can be made out to Christine Stolo and sent to Vin (PM me and I will give you his address so we don't publically post it here).

PP donations can go to vstolo@hotmail.com

I will be personally sending a check to Christine via Vin. If you can assist in this matter, I am sure Christine would appreciate it.

God's blessings to you all for a great Christmas.

Peace of the Lord be with you all.

I know its a rough time of year... but I hope some more folks can help.

blugill · 12-09-2009, 09:59 PM

Sounds like a perfect situation for my PIF, I'll be sending funds on the 18th.

RevSmoke · 12-10-2009, 07:15 AM

morning bump.

TripleF · 12-10-2009, 08:25 AM

The people on this board are incredible!!

Pray-palled some funds too bro!! (stole that from SmokeyJoe).

14holestogie · 12-10-2009, 08:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TripleF

The people on this board are incredible!!

Pray-palled some funds too bro!! (stole that from SmokeyJoe).

I'll be doing the same later today. It's a no-brainer for all that Vin does for others to help his family out when they need it.

shilala · 12-10-2009, 09:48 AM

Makes me smile, Vin.
I gave the ex a hug yesterday and told her I love her. Took a long time to get there.

I'll see what I can do.

GKitty · 12-10-2009, 10:03 AM

I've been waiting for this thread to start. Thanks, Rev.

"Pray-Pall"... I love it! and I'm using it to send what I can.

Vin, thanks for letting me repay a little of the joy you've brought to this our beloved asylum.

DBall · 12-10-2009, 10:15 AM

A little ppal gift sent...

Happy holidays.

jjirons69 · 12-10-2009, 10:48 AM

PP on the way, Vin!

Hope all works out!!

yourchoice · 12-10-2009, 10:56 AM

A PM sent to Rev for an addy. My prayers are with everyone involved in this terrible situation.

Vin, I'm going away for a long weekend so I'll be sending something to you for your ex next week.

12-10-2009, 09:56 AM

PP sent.

Also guys, if possible send this as a "gift". That way no fees are deducted.

RevSmoke · 12-10-2009, 12:55 PM

It does my heart good to see that others have the same thoughts as I did.

God's blessings to Christine and the kids - and to you also, Vin.

massphatness · 12-10-2009, 01:04 PM

I'm blown away. Can't thank you all enough. I'll post more later tonight, but the response of this community has floored me.

12-09-2009, 08:47 PM	#1
RevSmoke Ain't Never Gonna Leave Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Todd Location: Northcentral woods of Wisconsin Posts: 6,849 Trading: (51)	A plea for some help. Vin posted a quick note about how his ex-wife was treated by her new boyfriend. As a stand-up guy, he asked for prayers for her and the situation. I know Vin has helped out other in the past. And this isn't even for Vin, it's for his ex. So, read on. Here's his original post on the situation, please take a moment to read it. http://www.cigarasylum.com/vb/showpo...74&postcount=1 I asked if there was anything that could be done to help. He didn't ask for help. He said that he's doing what he can, but he "cannot cover everything." However, he also said that since it does affect his children, he wasn't going to turn an offer away (or something like that). He did state, "I just want to reiterate though that no one is going hungry. They have a roof over their heads and a vehicle to drive. It's just a crummy situation to deal with during what should should be a time of joy. I don't want to make it into a bigger deal than it is." OK, so it isn't an emergency. This is Christmas though, and so I asked, "If someone wants to lend some financial assistance, how can we help?" Please read the original post to see what kind of stuff the ex's boyfriend left with. It appears that He didn't take the kid's stuff - he took appliances and furniture. Some of the small appliances have been replaced, but there is a need for furniture and the larger appliances. I know none of us can do that, but maybe with a few donations we can help offset some of the expenses. Part of a note to me from Vin stated, "A lot of what was taken was silly, stupid stuff: a coffee maker, a vegetable steamer, a set of cutlery, etc. I had my ex put together a Target shopping list, and I took care of the immediate necessities. What I know she's going to have a hard time with is replacing furniture and appliances. What I know will never be lacking is anything for the kids as their grandparents will fill those needs well." I asked how we could get money to him. Vin has suggested the following as a way to funds to him to get to Christine. He stated the following: It doesn't really matter to me how people send. Check, PP -- it's all the same to me. I think my preferance would be to receive it here and then send it on to her so that I can thank people. Checks can be made out to *Christine Stolo* and sent to Vin (PM me and I will give you his address so we don't publically post it here). PP donations can go to vstolo@hotmail.com I will be personally sending a check to Christine via Vin. If you can assist in this matter, I am sure Christine would appreciate it. God's blessings to you all for a great Christmas. Peace of the Lord be with you all. __________________ Todd__ "Smoke what you like, and enjoy it!" Last edited by RevSmoke; 12-09-2009 at 08:52 PM. Reason: grammatical errors

12-09-2009, 08:59 PM	#3
SmokeyJoe Chief Wannastogie Lounge Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Joe Location: Raleigh, NC Posts: 3,163 Trading: (28)	Re: A plea for some help. Pray-palled some funds. Thanks, Todd. __________________ "I intend to smoke a good cigar to the glory of God..." ~ Charles H. Spurgeon, British Baptist preacher

12-09-2009, 09:05 PM	#4
massphatness Where's my buffaloooo ... Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Vin Location: MassHolia Posts: 12,690 Trading: (206)	Re: A plea for some help. Just wow. I'm a little choked up. From the bottom of my heart, thank you. __________________ *Help Support The Navy SEAL Foundation: HERE*

12-09-2009, 09:40 PM	#6
Doctorossi Have My Own Room Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Burlington, VT Posts: 1,684 Trading: (8)	Re: A plea for some help. PP sent. Thank you so much for doing this, Rev. Here's to a speedy recovery! __________________ Marvin Shanken is a terrific guy... for me to poop on!

12-09-2009, 09:59 PM	#9
blugill Feeling at Home Join Date: Dec 2008 First Name: Andy Location: Enid, Oklahoma Posts: 867 Trading: (10)	Re: A plea for some help. Sounds like a perfect situation for my PIF, I'll be sending funds on the 18th. __________________ My Blog

12-10-2009, 07:15 AM	#10
RevSmoke Ain't Never Gonna Leave Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Todd Location: Northcentral woods of Wisconsin Posts: 6,849 Trading: (51)	Re: A plea for some help. morning bump. __________________ Todd__ "Smoke what you like, and enjoy it!"

12-10-2009, 08:25 AM	#11
TripleF 11/11/11 EPIC IV Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Scott Location: Clearwater, FL Posts: 5,626 Trading: (176)	Re: A plea for some help. The people on this board are incredible!! Pray-palled some funds too bro!! (stole that from SmokeyJoe). __________________ Cool Cigar Shirts, Stickers & More

12-10-2009, 09:48 AM	#13
shilala Dear Lord, Thank You. Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Scott Posts: 13,721 Trading: (252)	Re: A plea for some help. Makes me smile, Vin. I gave the ex a hug yesterday and told her I love her. Took a long time to get there. I'll see what I can do. __________________

12-10-2009, 10:03 AM	#14
GKitty JAFO Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Crystal Location: Olathe, KS Posts: 1,938 Trading: (8)	Re: A plea for some help. I've been waiting for this thread to start. Thanks, Rev. "Pray-Pall"... I love it! and I'm using it to send what I can. Vin, thanks for letting me repay a little of the joy you've brought to this our beloved asylum. __________________ A lost SOTL wandering the weird landscape of domesticity.

12-10-2009, 10:15 AM	#15
DBall Cigar Jesus Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Dan Location: Rochester, NY Posts: 3,781 Trading: (46)	Re: A plea for some help. A little ppal gift sent... Happy holidays. __________________ --------Dan--------- My Music \| My Videos

12-10-2009, 10:48 AM	#16
jjirons69 Haberdasher Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Jamie Location: Chucktown, SC Posts: 4,120 Trading: (94)	Re: A plea for some help. PP on the way, Vin! Hope all works out!! __________________ Somebody has to go back and get a chitload of dimes

12-10-2009, 10:56 AM	#17
yourchoice Down the stretch Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Joel Location: South Jersey Posts: 4,091 Trading: (36)	Re: A plea for some help. A PM sent to Rev for an addy. My prayers are with everyone involved in this terrible situation. Vin, I'm going away for a long weekend so I'll be sending something to you for your ex next week.

12-10-2009, 09:56 AM	#18
Darrell Guest Posts: n/a	Re: A plea for some help. PP sent. Also guys, if possible send this as a "gift". That way no fees are deducted.

12-10-2009, 12:55 PM	#19
RevSmoke Ain't Never Gonna Leave Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Todd Location: Northcentral woods of Wisconsin Posts: 6,849 Trading: (51)	Re: A plea for some help. It does my heart good to see that others have the same thoughts as I did. God's blessings to Christine and the kids - and to you also, Vin. __________________ Todd__ "Smoke what you like, and enjoy it!"

12-10-2009, 01:04 PM	#20
massphatness Where's my buffaloooo ... Join Date: Oct 2008 First Name: Vin Location: MassHolia Posts: 12,690 Trading: (206)	Re: A plea for some help. I'm blown away. Can't thank you all enough. I'll post more later tonight, but the response of this community has floored me. __________________ *Help Support The Navy SEAL Foundation: HERE*