Being in VA Beach... you're a lot closer to the herf than I. It is held every Thursday at Baily's Pub and Grille in Newport News. You can bring your wife if ya like... just watch out for T-Bone. He scares the ladies off
Also, if you like the milder smokes try the Man O' War Virtue. Fantastic blend by AJ Fernandez... but much more mild than the regular MAW and Ruination.
PS: I haven't had an H Uppman that I liked either.