I never intended to disrespect anyone.  It was a term that was used just to refer to the new fad...that's all.  Yes I could've used another term at the time but that's the one that I used.  I apologized before for using it.  It wasn't directed at any one person or group.  Next time I'll just chose my words more carefully.
I respect each and everyone here.  Even if I have herfed with you or not, you are all grown men (and women) who should be respected the same way I would expect to be respected (not saying I have been disrespected).  
Hopefully this ends soon because I really feel like crap now.
