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A herf is a gathering of BOTL and SOTL to relax, unwind and smoke cigars. A herf can be as simple as two BOTL getting together for a smoke after work or it can be a full blowout with music, food, games, etc. The main theme of any herf is relaxation and camaraderie, everything else is secondary - even the cigars.
(shamelessly stolen from UrbanDictionary with some edits, because it fits pretty well with how I would define herf)
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