[Gophernut]

I have been diabetic for over 10 years, and only the past year or so have I had good control over my blood glucose. I guess my advice to you would be make sure your husband gets the education that is available on Diabetes. The clinic I use in the Twin Cities area was fantastic. Teaching without preaching. I tried everything as far as meds, but nothing seemed to work. My nurse talked to me about insulin, and we decided to try that. My problem was forgetfulness. I would be at lunch, and remember that my insulin was back at my office. We decided that an insulin pump would be a good tool for me, and it has. It's something that I have on me all the time. It reminds me when to check my blood, and I know if I eat something I should probably dose for it. My last 3 A1c tests have been normal.
I am not saying that you need to go research pumps, but saying that your husband will need to find a dr or nurse educator that he feels comfortable working with. While there is no cure, yet, there are numerous ways to control your diabetes. Don't get frustrated if something doesn't work.
If you have any additional questions, feel free to PM me.