[Partagaspete]

Some great thoughts here with diifferent circumstances for people who have lived in suc a household. I especially appreciate the perspective from the adoptees point of view.

Wolfgang, Inspiring story of your life. I am sure youdo have many interesting twist and turns and feel free to share as you like as well as hold onto what you want to keep personal to yourself. Thank you so much for sharing a part of your life. Unfortunately, since she is my sister in law I wont be able to hide it nor do I want to lie but we do need to keep it "age appropriate."

Remo,

So I take it your brothers Bio mom is different than yours? too often these reaquintance meetings do not go so well. In the case of Tristan we will avoid contact as long as we can for that reason. After all it would just confuse him and he is already having abondonmnet issues right now as I believe he thinks "it's been about the same amount of time where aboandomnet is coming agan..."

Thanks again all for your support

T