Actually no. Most of them will tell you to enjoy your whisky in whatever way makes
you happy, not that if you don't do it in exactly the manner they advocate that you're wrong and wasting good malt.
To answer your other question: I don't care how anyone chooses to enjoy their hobbies/vices/pursuits just so long as THEY enjoy them. I find anything else results in a rather condescending attitude, wouldn't you agree?