Brother: I am unaware of anyone impuning your integrity! Perhaps there was a misunderstanding somewhere along the line?
I have sent boxes to over 25 different people, 15 on a monthly basis. It is my hope that these people share what I send them. But, I expect them to partake in what I send THEM! They are a conduit, but they are part of the group that we at CA support! None of us have any problem with the receiver of the box to take some cigars and candy/coffee/nuts etc etc for their personal use. I imagine if the recipient kept all the goodies for himself, our contacts would be fat with hacking coughs!
So, hopefully all we have here is " a failure to cmmuncate."
Stay safe, God Bless You and all the troopers, enjoy your boxes from the asylum and happy smokes!