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RevSmoke 12-09-2009 07:47 PM
A plea for some help.
 
Vin posted a quick note about how his ex-wife was treated by her new boyfriend. As a stand-up guy, he asked for prayers for her and the situation.

I know Vin has helped out other in the past. And this isn't even for Vin, it's for his ex. So, read on.

Here's his original post on the situation, please take a moment to read it. http://www.cigarasylum.com/vb/showpo...74&postcount=1

I asked if there was anything that could be done to help.

He didn't ask for help. He said that he's doing what he can, but he "cannot cover everything." However, he also said that since it does affect his children, he wasn't going to turn an offer away (or something like that). He did state, "I just want to reiterate though that no one is going hungry. They have a roof over their heads and a vehicle to drive. It's just a crummy situation to deal with during what should should be a time of joy. I don't want to make it into a bigger deal than it is."

OK, so it isn't an emergency. This is Christmas though, and so I asked, "If someone wants to lend some financial assistance, how can we help?"

Please read the original post to see what kind of stuff the ex's boyfriend left with. It appears that He didn't take the kid's stuff - he took appliances and furniture. Some of the small appliances have been replaced, but there is a need for furniture and the larger appliances. I know none of us can do that, but maybe with a few donations we can help offset some of the expenses. Part of a note to me from Vin stated, "A lot of what was taken was silly, stupid stuff: a coffee maker, a vegetable steamer, a set of cutlery, etc. I had my ex put together a Target shopping list, and I took care of the immediate necessities. What I know she's going to have a hard time with is replacing furniture and appliances. What I know will never be lacking is anything for the kids as their grandparents will fill those needs well."

I asked how we could get money to him. Vin has suggested the following as a way to funds to him to get to Christine.

He stated the following: It doesn't really matter to me how people send. Check, PP -- it's all the same to me. I think my preferance would be to receive it here and then send it on to her so that I can thank people.

Checks can be made out to Christine Stolo and sent to Vin (PM me and I will give you his address so we don't publically post it here).

PP donations can go to vstolo@hotmail.com

I will be personally sending a check to Christine via Vin. If you can assist in this matter, I am sure Christine would appreciate it.

God's blessings to you all for a great Christmas.

Peace of the Lord be with you all.

kgoings 12-09-2009 07:55 PM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by RevSmoke (Post 674749)
Vin posted a quick note about how his ex-wife was treated by her new boyfriend. As a stand-up guy, he asked for prayers for her and the situation.

I know Vin has helped out other in the past. And this isn't even for Vin, it's for his ex. So, read on.

Here's his original post on the situation, please take a moment to read it. http://www.cigarasylum.com/vb/showpo...74&postcount=1

I asked if there was anything that could be done to help.

He didn't ask for help. He said that he's doing what he can, but he "cannot cover everything." However, he also said that since it does affect his children, he wasn't going to turn an offer away (or something like that). He did state, "I just want to reiterate though that no one is going hungry. They have a roof over their heads and a vehicle to drive. It's just a crummy situation to deal with during what should should be a time of joy. I don't want to make it into a bigger deal than it is."

OK, so it isn't an emergency. This is Christmas though, and so I asked, "If someone wants to lend some financial assistance, how can we help?"

Please read the original post to see what kind of stuff the ex's boyfriend left with. It appears that He didn't take the kid's stuff - he took appliances and furniture. Some of the small appliances have been replaced, but there is a need for furniture and the larger appliances. I know none of us can do that, but maybe with a few donations we can help offset some of the expenses. Part of a note to me from Vin stated, "A lot of what was taken was silly, stupid stuff: a coffee maker, a vegetable steamer, a set of cutlery, etc. I had my ex put together a Target shopping list, and I took care of the immediate necessities. What I know she's going to have a hard time with is replacing furniture and appliances. What I know will never be lacking is anything for the kids as their grandparents will fill those needs well."

I asked how we could get money to him. Vin has suggested the following as a way to funds to him to get to Christine.

He stated the following: It doesn't really matter to me how people send. Check, PP -- it's all the same to me. I think my preferance would be to receive it here and then send it on to her so that I can thank people.

Checks can be made out to Christine Stolo and sent to Vin (PM me and I will give you his address so we don't publically post it here).

PP donations can go to vstolo@hotmail.com

I will be personally sending a check to Christine via Vin. If you can assist in this matter, I am sure Christine would appreciate it.

God's blessings to you all for a great Christmas.

Peace of the Lord be with you all.

I was thinking the same thing. Consider money on the way

SmokeyJoe 12-09-2009 07:59 PM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
Pray-palled some funds. Thanks, Todd.

massphatness 12-09-2009 08:05 PM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
Just wow. I'm a little choked up. From the bottom of my heart, thank you.

SmokeyJoe 12-09-2009 08:08 PM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by massphatness (Post 674768)
Just wow. I'm a little choked up. From the bottom of my heart, thank you.
Hey... it's Cigar Asylum, brother. Its what we do.

Praying things turn around for Christine, Vin. You are a good man. :tu

Doctorossi 12-09-2009 08:40 PM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
PP sent. Thank you so much for doing this, Rev. Here's to a speedy recovery!

SmokeyJoe 12-09-2009 08:57 PM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by RevSmoke (Post 674749)
Vin posted a quick note about how his ex-wife was treated by her new boyfriend. As a stand-up guy, he asked for prayers for her and the situation.

I know Vin has helped out other in the past. And this isn't even for Vin, it's for his ex. So, read on.

Here's his original post on the situation, please take a moment to read it. http://www.cigarasylum.com/vb/showpo...74&postcount=1

I asked if there was anything that could be done to help.

He didn't ask for help. He said that he's doing what he can, but he "cannot cover everything." However, he also said that since it does affect his children, he wasn't going to turn an offer away (or something like that). He did state, "I just want to reiterate though that no one is going hungry. They have a roof over their heads and a vehicle to drive. It's just a crummy situation to deal with during what should should be a time of joy. I don't want to make it into a bigger deal than it is."

OK, so it isn't an emergency. This is Christmas though, and so I asked, "If someone wants to lend some financial assistance, how can we help?"

Please read the original post to see what kind of stuff the ex's boyfriend left with. It appears that He didn't take the kid's stuff - he took appliances and furniture. Some of the small appliances have been replaced, but there is a need for furniture and the larger appliances. I know none of us can do that, but maybe with a few donations we can help offset some of the expenses. Part of a note to me from Vin stated, "A lot of what was taken was silly, stupid stuff: a coffee maker, a vegetable steamer, a set of cutlery, etc. I had my ex put together a Target shopping list, and I took care of the immediate necessities. What I know she's going to have a hard time with is replacing furniture and appliances. What I know will never be lacking is anything for the kids as their grandparents will fill those needs well."

I asked how we could get money to him. Vin has suggested the following as a way to funds to him to get to Christine.

He stated the following: It doesn't really matter to me how people send. Check, PP -- it's all the same to me. I think my preferance would be to receive it here and then send it on to her so that I can thank people.

Checks can be made out to Christine Stolo and sent to Vin (PM me and I will give you his address so we don't publically post it here).

PP donations can go to vstolo@hotmail.com

I will be personally sending a check to Christine via Vin. If you can assist in this matter, I am sure Christine would appreciate it.

God's blessings to you all for a great Christmas.

Peace of the Lord be with you all.
I know its a rough time of year... but I hope some more folks can help. :ss

blugill 12-09-2009 08:59 PM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
Sounds like a perfect situation for my PIF, I'll be sending funds on the 18th.

bobarian 12-09-2009 09:02 PM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by SmokeyJoe (Post 674769)
Hey... it's Cigar Asylum, brother. Its what we do.

Praying things turn around for Christine, Vin. You are a good man. :tu
:tpd::tu

RevSmoke 12-10-2009 06:15 AM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
morning bump.

TripleF 12-10-2009 07:25 AM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
The people on this board are incredible!!

Pray-palled some funds too bro!! (stole that from SmokeyJoe).

14holestogie 12-10-2009 07:42 AM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by TripleF (Post 675221)
The people on this board are incredible!!

Pray-palled some funds too bro!! (stole that from SmokeyJoe).
I'll be doing the same later today. It's a no-brainer for all that Vin does for others to help his family out when they need it.

shilala 12-10-2009 08:48 AM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
Makes me smile, Vin.
I gave the ex a hug yesterday and told her I love her. Took a long time to get there. :)
I'll see what I can do. :tu

Darrell 12-10-2009 08:56 AM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
PP sent.

Also guys, if possible send this as a "gift". That way no fees are deducted.

GKitty 12-10-2009 09:03 AM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
I've been waiting for this thread to start. Thanks, Rev.

"Pray-Pall"... I love it! and I'm using it to send what I can.

Vin, thanks for letting me repay a little of the joy you've brought to this our beloved asylum.

DBall 12-10-2009 09:15 AM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
A little ppal gift sent...

Happy holidays. :tu

jjirons69 12-10-2009 09:48 AM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
PP on the way, Vin!

Hope all works out!!

yourchoice 12-10-2009 09:56 AM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
A PM sent to Rev for an addy. My prayers are with everyone involved in this terrible situation.

Vin, I'm going away for a long weekend so I'll be sending something to you for your ex next week.

RevSmoke 12-10-2009 11:55 AM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
It does my heart good to see that others have the same thoughts as I did.

God's blessings to Christine and the kids - and to you also, Vin.

massphatness 12-10-2009 12:04 PM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
I'm blown away. Can't thank you all enough. I'll post more later tonight, but the response of this community has floored me.

colimo 12-10-2009 12:38 PM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
pp on way....hope all ok...

BC-Axeman 12-10-2009 01:35 PM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
Merry Christmas, Christine, and thanks Rev.

Smokin Gator 12-10-2009 03:14 PM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
Thanks Rev for setting this up... and Vin... I hope our efforts can provide some comfort and Christmas cheer for the kids and your ex.

RevSmoke 12-10-2009 05:00 PM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by Smokin Gator (Post 675751)
Thanks Rev for setting this up... and Vin... I hope our efforts can provide some comfort and Christmas cheer for the kids and your ex.
You are welcome. And yes, I agree with you.

Merry Christmas to all!

Peace of the Lord be with you.

Savor the Stick 12-10-2009 05:24 PM
Re: A plea for some help.
 



Prayers on the way!
:tu

massphatness 12-10-2009 06:27 PM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
I need to chime in again and thank this truly wonderful community for its efforts. As I mentioned to another brother here, I cannot put my feelings into words at the moment. I need a couple of days to think long and hard about how to best express my sentiments. However, please know my ex-wife and kids are overwhelmed by the generosity of the people here. You are helping her to see there is more goodness out there than bad, and you are setting a wonderful example for my kids. More to come, but for now, many many thanks.

Doctorossi 12-10-2009 06:35 PM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by massphatness (Post 675929)
I need a couple of days to think long and hard about how to best express my sentiments.
You just did, man. Don't worry about it.

Quote:
Originally Posted by massphatness (Post 675929)
However, please know my ex-wife and kids are overwhelmed by the generosity of the people here. You are helping her to see there is more goodness out there than bad, and you are setting a wonderful example for my kids.
:tu Happy Holidays = Happy Asylum

SmokeyJoe 12-10-2009 08:58 PM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by massphatness (Post 675929)
I need to chime in again and thank this truly wonderful community for its efforts. As I mentioned to another brother here, I cannot put my feelings into words at the moment. I need a couple of days to think long and hard about how to best express my sentiments. However, please know my ex-wife and kids are overwhelmed by the generosity of the people here. You are helping her to see there is more goodness out there than bad, and you are setting a wonderful example for my kids. More to come, but for now, many many thanks.
You are welcome... and I get the feeling that you are ALREADY setting a great example for your kids. They are blessed to have you for their father and I am pleased that you and your ex get along so well. :tu

Darrell 12-10-2009 10:38 PM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
It was our pleasure to help you Vin. You're ALWAYS there for everyone else. I'm glad we had the opportunity to help your family, I just wish the circumstances were better for them.

Smokin Gator 12-11-2009 03:29 AM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by Darrell (Post 676245)
It was our pleasure to help you Vin. You're ALWAYS there for everyone else. I'm glad we had the opportunity to help your family, I just wish the circumstances were better for them.
:tu

When I exactly agree with D it always scares me a little... but that is dead on!!!

CasaDooley 12-11-2009 01:09 PM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
A little Christmas cheer on the way Brother.:ss

SmokeyJoe 12-11-2009 05:30 PM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
Bump!

RevSmoke 12-12-2009 07:31 AM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
morning bump

N2Advnture 12-13-2009 11:28 AM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
bump

Opusfxd 12-13-2009 09:57 PM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
How about a nudge?

mariogolbee 12-14-2009 04:41 PM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
Sent and bump.

SmokeyJoe 12-14-2009 05:23 PM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
Thank you to all who have made the effort to help... it says a lot for our community. God bless you all! :ss

Don Fernando 12-15-2009 02:46 AM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
bump

mrreindeer 12-15-2009 09:28 AM
Re: A plea for some help.
 
holiday cheer coming your way! :salute:


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