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I do think that consistency is the absolute key to any form of discipline, if a kid gets away with it sometimes but not others they will keep testing and eventually doubt your authority. |
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I had a similar issue. Also 3-4 year old. I knew where my daughter heard it (for those that know me... can you believe it wasn't me? :D) I would never touch my daughter out of discipline or for any reason for that matter. I simply used my booming, stern tone that she knows means business and proceeded to tell her that she was not to repeat what she had heard. I said I don't care who she heard say it, but that isn't something little girls say. I asked if she understood, to which she said yes... then laid on the tears. I always think that adopting a no touch, stern talking approach early on is the best approach. Physical contact only leads to aggression by them later. Good luck |
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I don't deny that my son hears me say bad words. Wes once called me out and said, "You dropped the F bomb 5 times during that phone conversation." Okay. Fair. I did. For those who play with my hubby on XBox... How is his swearing? LOL |
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This is more for the folks who are 30-plus & grew up with disciple before it was call child abuse... Nothing wrong with rosing up his backside alittle. By no means am I saying beat the kid just remind him who is the one in charge. Sometime a small pat on the butt is enough to keep him from using it again. I had this problem with my 2 year old he would use the B-word... |
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with soap. If you explain that this is what dirty mouths get, it will definitely put the clamps on dirty words. A55 whippins also work, but are best reserved for the soap not working. Get it good and wet and soapy and get it all in there and work it around. It takes a LONG time to get that taste out of your mouth. |
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Pretty sure I got a good "Dont say that again talk" and that didnt work. Then I got a spanking and I didn't say it again. Different strokes for different folks.
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It's difficult, curse words are everywhere.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ebv51QNm2Bk (NSFW Language) :r |
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I have no lil kids of my own but all I can add is that when I did that as a child all I can remember is my @ss hurting everytime I said it.
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If I was you my main concern will be where did he get it from? It didn't come out of the blue, so if you and the wife don't talk like that then another care taker does and if it was my child I couldn't go for that. |
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My daughter doesn't say any bad words. We just told her that they were bad and she was not to say them.
She like Toes, by Zac Brown Band, and when the song says ass she just stops and picks up as if it wasn't in the song. It's quite amusing. |
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It's pretty tough, but coming along slowly. Doing a combination of things so far. The one that has been working pretty good is changing it to a different word, and laughing about it. So, the new word is "fudgenutter". I let him pick it out.
Time outs sort of work. Still working on that. I will try the advice offered. Spankings are working a little, but not much. And I fear that too much spanking will render that punishment useless after too long. Thanks for all the input, guys. It's starting to work! |
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...and :c and :fu2 LOL |
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